with someone who likes HIM, she is married with 2 kids, we have been split for 4 months, but have still been seeing eachother and sleeping with eachother, If he loves me, then why does he want to make a go with some one else? we were together for nearly 4 years. We have no kids together, but he has a kid from a previous relationship, he said he doesnt want more kids, so i respected that. I am single otherwise, what advice can i get please?
2007-02-27 03:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by charmedandwelsh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, i told him that i went on a date last night (just to see what he would say!) and i dont think he liked it, so he thinks it ok for HIM to start going on dates with this woman, but its not ok for me to do so? doesnt make sense to me
2007-02-27 03:49:10 · update #1
for me, being with him IS normal, and he should be mature, he is 37, 10 years my senior, but maybe age doesnt say anything for him
2007-02-27 03:50:32 · update #2
do yourself a favour and dont go back to him, my ex is the same and i have moved on with my life. you will meet someone else.
good luck
2007-02-27 03:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's been stringing you along. He's told you he loves you so that he can have sex. If he loved you he wouldn't want to make a go o it with someone that he merely liked & if he loved you don't you think you would have worked things out by now and be back in a relationship? Sorry hon, I know thats painful to hear, but think about it.
Let him go girlfriend, I know how sore it is I've been there but never let someone walk over you like that. Yyou are the ony one of you that exisits and you have a duty to yourself to be happy! God Bless!
2007-02-27 11:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says he loves you it means that he 'cares' for you - after all you do have a long history. But he is obviously not IN love with you, at least not enough to want to be with you.
He's also probably too scared to say he doesn't love you as he doesn't want to hurt your feelings!! And he doesn't want to make an enemy and burn his bridges!!!
But he is obviously desperate to move on - let him go as you are wasting your time here!!!!
2007-02-27 11:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Philadelphia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very spoiled and childish. Find someone who is more mature and knows what he wants.
2007-02-27 11:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should cut all that off and be ur self to really know what u want.
2007-02-27 11:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes stringing you along....playing mind games....dont be fooled by the love talk...if he loved you why is he putting you through so much misery....been there,done that,worn the tee-shirt.wasted 9yrs of my life
2007-02-27 11:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by pixelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a broken matter hardly get back to normal
2007-02-27 11:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋