Hi All!
My fiance is Caucasian and I am African-American. We're having a difficult time finding information on how to plan our multicultural wedding. For example, my family/friends wouldn't appreciate hearing The Rolling Stones all night and his family/friends wouldn't appreciate hearing Earth, Wind & Fire (let's not even get into modern day hip-hop!) all night!!
How did you solve issues likes these at your wedding? Can anyone suggest a site or two?
Thanks!
2007-02-27 03:38:41 · 7 answers · asked by Rena T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Play what you both like plus all the typical party favorites. Your relatives are going to have to accept the differences and give them the respect they deserve. This is your weding and you are paying for it, do not try to please every person or you will go nuts.
2007-02-27 03:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am having a similar problem, I am a big ol' redneck, he is a sophisticated jazz kind of guy. Our compromise was keeping a good mix of the more main steam of both kinds of music. Talk to several DJs and see what they can come up with, and make sure they have adequate music to suit your needs. Good luck ( by the way I love Earth Wind & Fire )
2007-02-27 03:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some rolling stone and some earth, wind and fire I think a lot of caucasian people love earth wind and fire and urban music
2007-02-27 03:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find middle ground or if you cant agree on anything play half the songs of what his family wants and play the other half of what your family would like im sure ppl will have fun anyways and not mind the music that much...its your day and ppl will understand..good luck
2007-02-27 03:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 00:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its YOUR wedding. dont stress too much about what others think but find a middle ground that both your families appreciate. Maybe something soft...jazz...experiment w/ more music. go to a music store and ask someone who knows music..
2007-02-27 03:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kansha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have both kids of music intertwined. that is all that can work i have seen it. and you can also have food that way also. i mean there is two foods that should represent them both. it would be fun.
2007-03-02 12:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋