This guy i was dateing for 1 year...I thought he cared about me,But he always would hurt me,Like he cheated on me with my best friend,And he lied a ton of times,He dumped me on a holiday,Than again the day my grandmother passed away...I was so inlove with him....It just feels like i cannot love any guy as much as i loved him,Al tho he broke my heart over and over again...
2007-02-27 03:01:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I had one to do me that way when my dad passed away. He is no longer a friend of mine and I would advise you to stay away from him because he has no heart.
2007-02-27 03:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have gotten dumped, and it broke my heart too. I know how you feel, but sit back and take a look at all he has done to you. Do you think you deserved to be treated that way? Sounds like that relationship was one sided. Doesn't sound at all like he cared much for you. Let him go honey, he isn't worth it, you're better than that. So chin up, and move on, the hurt will eventually go away. Everytime you feel down about it think of what he has done to you so many times, and say to yourself, (I don't need or deserve this kind of treatment). Believe me, that works.
2007-02-27 11:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
No : If the relationship is not working out I tell them goodbye .
Cheer up and look on the bright side of life , don't look at it as being dumped look at it as a blessing because I know that there is always better for all of us . You loved him and he knew that you did and just took it for granted .
I know right now you can not see that you were better off without him and for that matter he did not deserve you anyway . Pick yourself up by the boot straps and get on with life . Before you know it real love will replace the hurt .
Take care
C
2007-02-27 11:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you are there for his convenience. Not only is he not committed to you but extremely insensitive towards important things in your life. Love is a sacred thing and I wouldn't waste it on someone that doesn't deserve it. There are better men out there and definately one that will return the feelings in a more sincere manner. Hang in there, don't lower your standards. Life is short and we deserve the best while we're here. Love doesn't have to hurt and if it does continuously, it's not real love.
2007-02-27 11:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same with me I mean I dumped this guy and he said that when I re-thought about "us" I could call him, I did and now he is acting like every girl likes him and dude no they don't I mean I have tryed to move on but I always go right back to him I miss and yah I know how you feel tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then at least try to move on or get into a sport and take it out on the ball lol!Let me know if you need support I am going through the exact same thing!sam_roxmysox@yahoo.com
2007-02-27 11:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats worthless relationship i have been there and done that, it feels like love but DONT hurt yourself. i know its hard but you need to get out and stop what hes doin to you. it wont be easy sorry to tell you but once you get over him and realize EXACTLY what he was doing ( which could take awhile) you will feel better. i went through a real rough relationship like this and i thought he was the one. and i broke up with him knowing if for some stupid reason THIS is what i was supposed to end up with we would be togehter but i also knew this wasnt what love was. Break it off and as hard as it will be move on and try to get over him....
best of luck
2007-02-27 11:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by dancerchick5287 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never been dumped. If you want to find true love, my advice to you is to stop focusing on physical appearances and personal charm. Focus on the person's heart. Focus on who that person is. The exterior beauty fades with time, but the interior beauty of someone's heart lasts forever. Find a guy that loves you and cares about you. Good luck.
2007-02-27 11:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time for you to dump this loser and find someone who actually appreciates you. If he does this while you are dating...he will do the same if you continue the relationship. Don't you really want someone that loves you for you and makes you feel special?
2007-02-27 11:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently got dumped a few days before Valentines day by my boyfriend who I was very in love with.
2007-02-27 11:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it happens to everyone. You shouldn't care about someone who only hurt you. Trust me your only hurting yourself....I went through a similar situation, but i got over it and now I look back and remember how much I cried over a guy who wasn't even worth it. like you said YOU THOUGHT he cared about you that only means you realized he didn't...right. Don't sweat it...everything will be just fine.
2007-02-27 11:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋