After I graduated highschool in USA, I was instantly forced into premed by my parents OVERSEAS at home country. My grades dropped gradually over two hellish years. I decided that I have no future in the field, so I took a strong step and changed my major to management. My parents, being both doctors are outraged. Though I am successful in my new major (GPA is 3.6), they still treat me as a faliure. I would love to get a job and get started on my own, but your average pay is as little as $0.78/hrs, not a wise investment. I get my pocket money from my mom ($200/month), my dad keeps calling me "hippie" and I can't make any move because I don't have the finance for it. My dad works outside town and last time I saw him we had a great fight (I called him a liar). My mom keeps treating me like property, locks the house at 9pm so I cant stay out any longer than that. My social life is non existent, I know my first step out of this mess relies on cash. What would you do If you were in my shoes?
2007-02-27
02:59:09
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My mom locks uses an inside lock, it doesn't open with a key. I do have a key to the house, but thats a keyless lock. Work is an 8 to 10 hour job each day and like i said, about 78 cents/hr on average (i did look around). Its another 2-3 years till I graduate management. I thought about stocks but Im ill experienced and i have no funds to work with. Each time we try to settle down and have a talk, they put on this bossy "do as your told" attitude, names, money issues, and accusations start flying around. I called my dad a liar, or more accurately "not a man of his word", because he changed his mind on a really heavy subject, concerning my transfer back a US college. He agreed and put on this whole act that he would let me go to the US, 3 days later he changes his mind, he says im not into my studies and brings up this faliure issue. He works out of town to stay away from mom, shows up every few months, interestingly still married. there is no balance. I need real help confronting this.
2007-02-27
04:09:07 ·
update #1
Thank you all for your help. If there is any extra detail you need to know please say so.
2007-02-27
04:12:46 ·
update #2