i want to know if for both parties if using a condom is better or worse. ive heard it makes some girls sore if they use one and some girls can be allgeric to them. and for the guys it feels better without one. but theres always the threat of getting pregant but which one is really better?!?! which one feels better?? is it worth it to not use one?
2007-02-27 02:48:00 · 24 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lets just say its better if she uses something,i hate condoms.they are uncomftable and take the pleasure away(but then again better save than sorry later on).
2007-02-27 02:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sensation is much better without a condom, though the risks of disease or unwanted pregnancy are far too great not to use one.
If you were not to use a condom and contract one of the more serious STD's, such as AIDS, your life would effectively be over and you would be condemned to a slow, painful death. Furthermore, if you were to impregnate your partner, you would then be forced to choose to either do the moral thing and begin supporting the child, a fact that would force you to abandon your youth, or to murder the child and have to live with the knowledge that you have taken a human life.
In terms of the sensation though, a condom allows a guy to feel the "thrusting" sensation but prevents him from experiencing the full sensation of lovemaking and the great feeling of intimate contact between a man and a woman.
Thus, if she's on the pill, the two of you are in an exclusive relationship, you have confirmed that both or you are disease free, and have mutually decided to do so, you will certainly want to experience lovemaking.
2007-02-27 11:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I think always using a condom is the best option. For women, test out and see if she is allergic to the condom ahead of time. Also, use lubrication if she gets sore after. Since I am a woman, I just think using a condom is a better idea. Its more of a safer sex. Also, if your partner has been around the block a few times, do you really want to run the risk of an STD? That is your body, you don't have to trust that person with such a risk. Last, if you are ready for the possiblility of the woman to concieve a child, go for no condom.
2007-02-27 10:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does feel better without using a condom, however when you look at the chances of pregnancy and std's it is definately worth covering up. Even if you are in a serious relationship it is still best to use protection, it can take up to 6 months for the hiv virus to show as positive when testing. 1 in every 3 people has had or will have and std in this life. When you look at the odd's is it realy worth it not to use one?
2007-02-27 10:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by catmomiam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! I knew my cycle perfectly and still got pregnant. Plus, I didn't have to worry about HIV and STD's, but if you're not in a long-term, fully disclosed relationship, then NOT using a condom is just plain irresponsible and stupid for diseases. Use the male one. The female one is even more annoying and can get twisted and stuck. It's just part of being a responsible ADULT in the 21st century!
2007-02-27 10:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms come in all shapes sizes and materials, given the right condom there should be no irritation and even an enhanced sexual experience. That coupled with the fact that you are having safe and responsible sex should make condoms a must for all sexual encounters that are not efforts to reproduce.
2007-02-27 10:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STD'S, AIDS, have those words crossed your mind. You need to wrap it up. If you are married than thats different unless you have a mistress, make sure that you always use protection you dont want to be the one that gets a call from the doctor stating that you have AIDS. Think before you make the wrong the decision. Think with yo mind not yo' piece of meat.
2007-02-27 14:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by meme0126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it always feels better do have sex without a condom but then as you say there is always the chance of getting the gal pregnant so in that case you should always use one.
2007-02-27 10:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a personal question. It does feel alot better but is it worth the risk. I would always wrap it up for girls im just hooking up with but when im in a relationship and im comfortable and she is on birth control i do it. It really up to you man
2007-02-27 10:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally it feels better without one, but with so many diseases out there and AIDS, unless you are in a one-on-one relationship with someone and she is on birth control, not a good idea to go without one...and bc is not 100% effective either.
2007-02-27 10:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and doing it with your wife, then you can do without it... in any other circumstance you better use one to help protect yourself against STD's and girls that just want to have a baby and will do anything to get one.
Just remember if you F it then you better be prepared to be a daddy.
2007-02-27 10:54:45 · answer #11 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋