I got together with this guy at a friend's party on Saturday and we got along really well. On sunday, my friend text me to say this guy had been talking about me all day, and was it ok if she gave him my number. She gave me his and I said she could give him mine. Is there some unwritten rule about how many days after meeting a guy calls a girl? Or should I call him? I'm really nervous, and afraid he's not going to remember me or something. What should I do? Help!
2007-02-27 02:21:56 · 30 answers · asked by Maureen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was just on Saturday, give it a bit more time. If you're all he could talk about the next day, he will not be forgetting you! He'll likely call before the weekend to try and set something up for this weekend....at least that's what I'd do..
2007-02-27 02:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by leprechaun3833 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text, saying something like what a great party it was on Saturday night etc. etc. Ask him if he wants to meet up for a drink some time. Leave it at that and see what happens. You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain.
2007-02-27 10:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men use the 3 day rule so he should call you by Wednesday, unless he is watching the champions league football. But we do live in the 21st century so can not see why if you like him you can not call him?
2007-02-27 10:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was talking about you all day then he will obviously remember you. drop him a text or call and see if he replies. he may have got your number wrong or even may be waiting for you to make the first move.
2007-02-27 10:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and after hello ask him why ask for your # if he wasn't calling you? Maybe he's a little shy . Make the first move by calling and asking him the question. Answer his stutter or airby saying. I asked for your # too, Here I am. Interested?
2007-02-27 10:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him. In my experience the more you act like he isn't needed (initially of course) the more he will want you or feel like he is missing out on something because of your nonchalance. Men seem to be more attracted to a woman who has her own life. Keep it cool for the first month at least.
2007-02-27 10:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by in2one 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually wait a minimum of 2 days to call after they get your digits. Be patient! He obviously likes you so he will call.
2007-02-27 10:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by t1riel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this same thing happened to me a few days ago. yesterday the guy called me. if i was you, i'd give it another day and then call him just to see whats up. ask him how hes doing and if he remembers who you are. just start a conversation and see where it goes!
2007-02-27 10:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Poptart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him to say Hi
2007-02-27 10:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by crazylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey call him if you like him...I did call a gy that I meet on Sat and I just want to do a nice thing and not because I maybe like him not....I did just to be nice so If call someone just to be nice so you can call a person that you like goood luck!!! Break the rules and see what happend..
2007-02-27 10:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋