My ex bf Brandon and I have a huge past. We met last year when I was with Ty, a guy I thought I was totally in love with. I met Brandon thru my best friend Grant. And I thought he was really cute. I was stupid and told Grant, and Grant told Brandon. Brandon told Grant that he liked me. I didnt even know him. But then we started texting each other and talking on IM. He would always ask me if I had broken up with Ty yet. I wasnt going to because I barely knew Brandon but I was falling for Ty. And then one night when we were texting each other Brandon just said "I love you soo much"..I didnt know what to say. My heart was pounding! And I couldnt say I love you too because of Ty. And I wasnt really sure if I did or not. Then last summer Ty broke up with me because his parents didnt like my family. Brandon was there for me. And 2 months later asked me out, I said yes. We couldnt really see each other because it was summer and we were both really busy but we talked alot on IM and kept on texting. I went to his football games and stuff though. Then when we got back to school there were rumors that he never liked me and he was going to break up with me. I decided to talk to him, and see if it was true. He said "of course not!" and hugged me. Later that day he was walking with this other girl and my friend was walking behind them, she heard the girl say "Do you think you missed her?" and Brandon said "Idk thats why Im running faster." I was hurt so bad. So I broke up with him. He came to hug me and I pushed him away. We hated each other for a while. Until we found out we had one of the same classes together. Brandons the guy that all girls love because hes funny. He can always make you laugh. And I never stopped thinking he was cute. I stopped thinking he was funny. But when we ended up in the class together I started having those old feelings for him...and word is hes ACTUALLY having them for me this time. But I dont know. He has a girlfriend and Ive never seen him this way with a girl usually its 2 weeks and there done. Its been 2 months and hes totally crazy about her. Hes like my best friend now. And I would never ruin something like that for him. Some guy really hurt me yesterday and Brandon was right there talking to me and trying to make me feel better. Hugging me, and telling me everythings going to be okay. And saying a guy like him doesnt deserve me. But Im so confused. And I dont know what Im feeling. Or what he is. I dont think its right. But idk. HELP.
2007-02-27 02:14:08 · 5 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
babygirl, Brandon is what we call a player. You make like him.....because he's put MAJOR game on you! I wouldn't trust him. Not trying to be mean but Brandon's one of those guys that knows he's attractive and can have whoever he wants so he plays the field. Don't hurt yourself and set yourself up for the oke doke! Baby, be safe. I wouldn't want you to go through something that could have been prevented. Surround yourself with your girlfriends and focus on you. Don't worry about a boy. Trust me the Mr. Right will come around sooner or later. Good Luck baby!
2007-02-27 02:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by AE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def. seems like he wants to be really good friends rather than intimate. You guys seem to rely on each other for comfort and thats it. He was probably confused and thought he loved you but found out he didnt. Keep him as a friend. Doesn't sound like you could trust him as a boyfriend at all. Move on girl. If he does "like" you then you'll be making him jealous and it will be more fun that way anyways. You'lll have a new boy to love and a friend you can tease :-p
2007-02-27 02:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you too still like each other and that little getting mad at each other was just a fase that everyone goes threw but yea and you shouldnt pay any attention to rumours thats the biggest reasons for break ups. but ya... there isnt really anything you can do unless you want to be a homewreaker but no dont do that just sit back and just continue being friends with him... the time will come and remember dont pay any attention to the Rumours Kapish
2007-02-27 02:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Exco12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a mess...until you and him learn to not have back up boyfriends and girlfriends ...your gonna have the same problems all over again..
good luck though ..its part of growin up..you'll figure it out..
2007-02-27 02:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends and if it happens it happens.
2007-02-27 02:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋