And another woman overheard it and told my girlfriend who was also there. I feel she was wrong for doing that
and should have minded her business. My girlfriend left
the party and now won't meet with me.
How can I work everything out after that other woman
ruined my party? I would like to get back with my girlfriend.
2007-02-27 02:02:21 · 22 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grab your ex girlfriend behind some corner and make her believe that you had temporary insanity. Say that you had too much musk and that your party had suddenly turned into a swinger party and that you went for it thinking that your girlfriend did the same thing with a friend of yours whome she was giving signs.
The other woman, the one that ruined your party, was jelous because you didn't ask her but some other, third woman. Organize the next swinging party, with all your three girlfriends there too, and show your ex that you really fancy swinger parties and that she ought to enjoy it as well.
The other option is to have them three at once, but for that you need to be more experienced. By the way, what happened afterwards with that third one? You let her go?
2007-02-27 02:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEN, BEN, BEN. you acted foolishly, dummy. as far as you wanting to cheat and all, go ahead that is your problem I am not going to judge you and tell you that what you did and what you will do in the future is wrong but never ask for sex from anyone if your exclusive in the the same room, I mean you might as will screw the other girl while your gf is in the same bed with you ....if you are going put it out there like that. As far as getting your ex back, psst, don't know. maybe you should just leave it alone to avoid future complications because when you two get into arguments if it is related to honesty she will throw this at your face every chance she gets. Why bother. I would leave it alone. You are just feeling kinda rejected right now. That will pass
2007-02-27 10:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The other woman didn't ruin your party, YOU ruined your party. If that girl were me, I would have told my friend as well. Women stick together and protect each other. I would never, EVER want a friend of mine with a man who would think it was okay to ask for sex from another woman, especially if the girl friend were there! Lord man, this isn't high school! It's real life. You can't treat women this way and expect them to be okay with it. It sounds like you need to decide if you want a one woman relationship, of if you want to play the field.
2007-02-27 10:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for forgiveness. There are a couple of ways to do that but you have to persevere if she refuse to forgive you:
1. Just sincerely say sorry to her with a bouquet of flowers right in front of her. If she is soft-hearted, she will give in.
2. Say sorry and make her laugh even it means making clown faces. Once she laugh, it means her heart had soften.
3. Stand close to her, say sorry and give her flowers. If she is still a little upset, tickle her a little.
I hope this helps you. Do promise your girlfriend that you won't do it again. This kind of tricks don't really work for repeating mistakes.
2007-02-27 10:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by warrax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kind of an @ss. YOU ruined your own party and the lucky person here is your girlfriend for realizing what a snake you are.
2007-02-27 10:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Devdude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have asked the woman for sex. No wonder your girlfriend doesnt want to meet with you just leave her alone she is better off without you. how can she trust you now????
2007-02-27 11:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by rachelxxflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your going to have a lot of making up to do................show her that you love her and you don't want her to leave.......do something romantic for her but you can't be cheap and if she really love you she will give you a second chance because you had not did anything yet.......what you did just take that as a lesson learned (sorry to say this but you were wrong and I think you know that.....well I hope you know that)
2007-02-27 10:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you owe your girl friend an apology.... she is embarrased and she feels betrayed, unloved and used. She might be questioning the purpose of the relationship because she now feels she cannot trust you. The other woman was doing something that all women do stick up fro each other. you hurt her real bad, if she forgives you you are on lucky.....
2007-02-27 10:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Alise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, buddy. It ain't gonna happen. She's done with you. Perhaps next time you meet someone you're interested in you'll be up front and say that you want to keep the relationship open.
2007-02-27 10:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve your girlfriend. It was a party. Things at parties is everyones business.
I hope your girlfriend stays away from you. you only deserve grief!!
2007-02-27 10:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋