Is my boyfriend cheating?

Question

I wake up every morning hating my boyfriend, because i have dreams of him cheating, are these dreams reality???

Answer 1

check out 'cheating in dreams' at

Answer 2

NO! Unless you have proof, don't accuse him. I found some info on the internet about dream interpretation that might help:

Seeing your partner having sex with someone else: You are probably deeply uncertain about your own value and doubt whether you are lovable. These feelings may hide painful dependence upon the loved person. This dependence may be based upon childhood needs that were never met, or were betrayed.

I have these dreams as well and I have never trusted a man more in my life than my husband of 9 years.. I tell him about the horrible dream I had that he was cheating and he holds me in his arms and says "never", "it will never happen". It takes a minute to get that nasty feeling out of yourself but just keep your head about you and breath for a few minutes. It isn't the boyfriend's fault you are having these dreams. Please check out some info for yourself......

Answer 3

No, the dreams aren't real, you are having these dreams because you think that he is cheating on you and the more you think about it, the more dreams you will have.

Unless you have proof that he is cheating on you, you see it with your own eyes or he tells you that he is, then you have to trust that he isn't. The fact that you are waking up hating him could be ruining your relationship and if you are voicing the to him the fact that you think that he is cheating on you, this could/might lead him to cheat. (Hopefully it won't though)

Answer 4

Ok dreams are nothing more than dreams probably based on your insecurities and fears. If you're afraid of your bf cheating on you (or you've been cheated on in the past) - your fear of it happening is probably fueling these dreams. If you trust your bf, then keep telling yourself you have nothing to worry about.

Some signs he's cheating:

1. Constantly late coming home or doesn't come home at all
2. Takes calls in the other room or outside when you're home
3. Lies about where he was or where he's going
4. Acts secretive
5. Doesn't seem to want to come home and/or stay home

There's more - but these are real red flags that she prompt you asking questions.

Answer 5

dear neogoddess most of the time what you dream about is the thing you think about before you sleep do you have reasons to suspect he is cheating or is it a possibility that you were hurt by a cheater in a previous relationship and you think that all guys are cheaters?

not all guys are cheaters studies have shown that women are more than likely to go astray I m not real sure of that but that's what the studies have shown.

trust is one of the most important things in a relationship if you spend most of your time questioning him about it he will either break up with you or find it convenient to cheat using the old saying "well if you are accusing me I might as well do it"

so relax you might have a good guy I don't really know you didn't put much info on it but cheating is terrible in relationship it doesn't matter who or why it shows that you are not committed but we all have our faults to forgive somebody for that is totally up to you if they will change

good luck dreams are important in life but don't make life changing decisions over them unless you feel it is necessary

Answer 6

You are having these dreams because deep inside you feel its possible that he is cheating...It could be a warning.. In the Bible there are passages where God allowed people to have dreams and warned them of pending things. For example, God gave Joseph a dream to rise and get up and flee because Harrod was trying to kill all the baby boys. Joseph and Mary took baby Jesus and fled right in the nick of time... I would not discard these dreams as rubbish...

Answer 7

I used to have those kind of problems...and they usually are never true. Some dreams may sometimes relate to ur past making u wonder if ur new guy may be like ur other guys who have cheated on u. If u still think he's cheating. Try to catch him in the act without him knowing

Answer 8

Doubtful, often our dreams mean something so off the wall from what we actually dreamed it's unreal. Go to your library and find a book on dream analysis. Could be you want to cheat so you have dreams of him cheating to ease your own guilt. Have you had thoughts of another?
http://pbskids.org/itsmylife/emotions/dreams/article3.html

http://www.dreamsleep.net/

http://www.geocities.com/Omegaman_UK/dreams.html
Here's a few sites I found, hope they can help you understand whats going on here. But before you kick your boyfriend to the curb, talk to him if you think he may be on the prowl.

Answer 9

No that is just a dream. Don't consider it as a reality or don't just conclude what you see in your dream because you might instead end up hurting your self or the boy. Just wait till you catch him right handed.

Answer 10

Nope, your dreams are just paranoia that he may cheat. I'd almost bet you've been cheated on before by someone else so you're afraid it's going to happen again or someone close to you has been cheated on.

Don't get all worked up about it, it's only a dream.

Answer 11

Those dreams are VERY IMPORTANT!!!! Don't disregard them!

You see, when you dream about your boyfriend cheating on you, your mind is intercepting the mind-control rays that the evil alien reptilians are sending to your boyfriend. If he hasn't started cheating on you yet, he'll soon succumb to the power of those rays and begin to cheat.

...that is, unless YOU do something about it! That's right! It's all up to you to save your relationship! You must make your boyfriend cover his head with tinfoil to block those rays. And you must make sure he does it EVERY NIGHT for the rest of his life. This is VITALLY IMPORTANT! The fate of your boyfriend, his mistresses, your relationship, and of all life on earth hangs in the balance! We are ALL COUNTING ON YOU to DO THE RIGHT THING!