i have many lesbian friends and i have no problem with that the only problem is that one of them confessed to me they like me and now it feels awkward when were together what do i do?
by the way im straight
2007-02-27 01:52:05 · 22 answers · asked by sexy_latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop hanging out with your lesbian friend, or always looks like crap around her, or tell her you like a boy you met/
2007-02-27 01:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well straight or not, playing with another female can be fun. However, if you are not interested in women, or just not "into" your friend (which I admit could be pretty weird) then just tell her flat out that you like her as a friend but aren't interested in anything more than a friendship (just like you would tell a guy who was hitting on you but in whom you aren't interested in). If she takes it hard, chances are you won't hang out with her much anymore - but if she's cool with it, it may be weird at first, but things should go back to normal in a little while.
2007-02-27 09:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is not good to temporarily ignore your friend, this might be one of your choices or maybe you'll like to talk it out with her?
Whenever you're around her, 'act smart', think straight and do not ignore her on purpose. It'll only make the situation even more uncomfortable. Refrain from interacting with her too much i guess. Make small talk but try to veer it away from the apparent fact that she might tell you about her fondness towards you.
2007-02-27 09:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by MellaGothique 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sure the awkwardness will pass. Talk to her and let her know that you are not interested in being anything more then friends and just be friends
2007-02-27 10:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and share your feelings with them. Even confess that it feels alittle awkward, work through it and see what happens. Honesty is best
2007-02-27 09:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can see how awkward that could make things but you's are friends so why would you let something like that get in the way...
2007-02-27 10:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this has happened to you with men. Just handle it the same way. I really don't see what the difference is.
2007-02-27 09:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say thank you, but you just don't feel the attraction. You want to be friends, that is all.
2007-02-27 09:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then just tell her. If you are straight, then she should know that. Just tell her that it would be too wierd doing anything with friends because it would be like sleeping with your sister... GROSS. So you cant do anything because of that. Good luck
2007-02-27 09:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
just tell him you like to be friends only and that your straight!
2007-02-27 09:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋