I need to be more Attractive!! i need a girl???

Question

i would like to look more attractive, i dont think im ugly but not many girls notice me,i can be shy at most times, i'm 20 years old i have only had 1 girlfriend, which i was with for 3 years which i finished her two years ago, but now i feel so lonely, i really like to have a best friend, but they never notice me, how can i be noticed please help



thanks for your time and thanks for reading my question

Answer 1

if you change and a girl falls for you, shes only liking you for your changes not for you. if a girl really likes you she will fall for you no matter what you look lik eor how smart you are. trust me dont change, it takes alot of guts not to change who you are to impress teh world but it also is worth it. it just means the right girl hasnt come around yet, she'll come eventually when its right. "everything happens for a reason". try not to be too shy around girls espcially, dont be down that youve only ever had one girlfriend, she lasted 3 years so i think that pretty damn good. you sound like a decent guy, not some man whore so dont lose hope yet because shes jsut around the corner =)

Answer 2

i would also like an answer to this question lol as im in the same situation, been almost 2 yrs since i had a serious relationship.

everyone above has given good advice imo..

my advice is just be yourself and change your look everynow n then as a way to boost your confidence, and then with your new hair cut you can walk down the road like your unstoppable :)
dont act like a cocky hard man though.. just be confident.

i went to the hairdressers and got a new haircut a month ago, all spiked up n gelled n stuff, yup it looked pretty good.
after cutting it i felt more confident in my looks and i went to the local bank and some girl started flirting with me, maybe it was the hair?

little things like that make a big difference.
i didnt care what people thought myi looks and maybe thats why this girl kept looking over :) i could have made a move on her but didnt.. its not the first time either!

there are many girls out there that probably like you but you just dont know it. remember there is many guys out there who have never even had a gf before! so be patient and a girl will come along eventually, take your mind off girls and just have fun, most likely if you study and focus more on your work now you can get a decent job nad get your life sorted and then after you will still have plenty of time to find miss right :)

gd luck mate

Answer 3

Right first things first, you say you're shy, most girls will give you a wide berth if you are not confident enough to make the first move, you should go to a club, there must be some guys near where you live to go to a local club or pub with you, if you look around believe it or not girls do like cocky, funny guys if you go to a pub it always the guys that are laughing loudest that have all the girls hanging around,, the way to look at it is you wont see any of these girls again so say what you feel like so it doesnt matter if you say something silly, it will break the ice, ask for a phone number if you get it voila you have cracked it, this may take a few weeks but you need to be confident..if this doesnt work you will have to invest in a puppy...that will work everytime

Answer 4

It really isnt a matter of looks you know. I find that confidence is the best attraction for the opposite sex. Work on your self esteem and walk with a confident air about you and girls WILL notice you. If your really concerned about the way you look,get a new hair style or some new clothes that will make you feel better about yourself. Just remember to always be yourself, dont copy others you think are attractive. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

First of all girls like bad *** guys, you may seem like to much of a nice guy. I hate to recommend acting like a dick and I don't but I must admit that is what many girls are into. Second of all hit the gym regularly. It is an opportunity to meet new people and many girls are into muscles too. Lastly be a flirt! And that is probably the most important part.

Answer 6

People react to confidence so maybe yours needs a boost!!
There are many day courses out there at colleges that offer confidence building, and they are SO worth doing.
If you look confident and can come across as someone worth knowing, you have got it!!
Oh, and the gel and BMW comment was also a good idea!!!!
Good luck x

Answer 7

first off. girls dont like needy guys. a guy shouldnt be looking for a girl to complete his life, just to enhance it.

you definately need to change this mentality that you NEED a girl. because it will be obvious in your relationships and will make you come off as clingy which will scare away most girls

you need to improve your confidence and self image. start working out three times a week, get a better diet, and most importantly GO OUT MORE

you need girls to show off that personality, and body to. which wont happen if you sit at home all day

good luck x

Answer 8

Hey looks aren't the only thing you know. Be a friend ,be your self ,you may not know it but you might have some chick who digs you just the way you are. Keep your eyes open you may discover you probably have admirers

Answer 9

i think you need to take some course on assertivness as you will find it helps build your confidence and i think confidence is the key to your issue. i am an extremly out going person and have a lot of confidence, but have had to work hard to get the confidence as i was like you weer until i trained as a counsellor, and hav had to work hard on my issues and confidence. now i have no problemo

Answer 10

All you can do is be yourself! im sure you are a great guy, you just havent came across the right girl.

Keep smiling you wont be lucky to escape the clutches of a female!