Even if you marry another person and have a family. No matter what you still love them.
2007-02-27 01:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i believe that. that i think is what we call true love. true love doesnt necessarily mean that u have to be with the person. its the experience u felt with him, u will know for sure that, that is true love. i had my true love but it didnt work out for us. i will just love him in silence and must move on with my life without him.
2007-02-27 01:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by intense35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. But having said that, it doesn't necessarily mean that things would have worked out just fine if you ended up with the other person. There is just no way of ever knowing.
So what I do is just be happy for the time and the feeling that was part of my life and hope the other person has a happy life too.
I would, however, draw the line at openly discussing this with your current spouse, or anyone else for that matter, lest it get back to your spouse. Believe me, some memories have to remain memories, and be thankful for the happy ones.
2007-02-27 09:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Well.... I kind of agree. My first love, (RB)** and I had an amazing relationship. The kind that I will never forget. We broke up at the end of my freshman year in high school and decided to remain friends. I've been his friend for 14 years, and Im even really good friends with his girlfriend. I dont think I ever really lost the love that I felt, I think it just changed into a friendship love. Id still do anything for him, and he would for me too. But we are just friends. Hope this helps.
2007-02-27 09:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel that way right now. I hope everyone gets to feel this way at some point in their lives.
I know that things might not work out between this guy and me. We might end up marrying some one else and be perfectly happy. But I know I will always Love him.
People come and go throughout our lives, but some make an impact that will stay with you forever.
2007-02-27 10:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Alley 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Yep!!!...it happens to most everyone at some point in their lives I'm certain. I was recently dumped unwillfully. Imagine all the psychology in all of that stuff!!! I met a fabulous woman 5 years ago, that I'll possibly never again have the oppurtunity to be with significantly. My fault maybe...but possibly not my fault either. I may have done something wrong with her to cause her to leave,...but I'm absolutely NOT convinced of the certainty in all of that. She has some admittedly unresolved issues from some past relationships which afflict her presently. I can't change her past stuff with these other fellas though...I can only be beside her when she comes to her own resolutions. She says she doesn't deserve me. The "I'm too good for her, and too nice for her" kinda crap takes place. Maybe she's right! They are her difficulties reasonably...not mine. Her youthful young womanhood presented her with some extremely traumatic experiences. How could I have known about all of this stuff in advance of her? I won't go into that stuff for her sake. I don't know how I would ever be able to assist her in resolving this stuff personally...but I was absolutely willing to listen and stand by her while she did this. I offer no suggestions to correct anything for anyone. I have a great empathy in listening though. I don't judge anyone but myself. The answers all lie within ourselves...no one else realistically. Make satisfaction for yourself...or make dissatisfaction. It's all up to you my friend...and no one else. You own it reasonably by yourself. Get busy now....cause time is ticking by you.Let time be your freind and go out and see other people. Disfunction runs rampent in some people miserably. We all know how misery loves company. Find happy people to be with...not unhappy one's at that.
2007-02-27 10:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do because I love an ex boyfriend very much. He doesn't deserve it and that is why I left him but I am about to marry a great man, the perfect match for me who I love also and yet I still love this other guy. I suspect I always will.
2007-02-27 09:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yes there is one person thatyou are meant to spend the rest of your life with. Sometimes we do not meet for several years but they are out there somewhere searching for you as well.
2007-02-27 09:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!
I definitely don't want to make the mistake of marrying someone else and always thinking of someone other than my husband!
2007-02-27 09:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋