Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last month when she sent me a mail. It was abt her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I replied her but what do i do nexT??
2007-02-27 00:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me on this....
She is not into you, but she is not direct enough to be honest about this, and she likes you well enough to continue a semi-friendship, but it will not develop into anything else.
Believe me.....I was that girl.
The excuses, lack of contact, etc. are because she is not mature enough to communicate her lack of interest in furthering a romantic relationship.
2007-02-27 00:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, in your next email to her, mention that some other girl has being wanting to spend time with you, and that you told her that you needed to clear things up with your girlfriend, and ask your girlfriend what her thoughts are, what kind of boundaries does your girlfriend want you to live by while she is gone and ignoring you? Maybe mention that your hormones are running wild without her around and you don't know how long you can hold out against this other girl, maybe even ask your girlfriend if she knows this new (made up) girl, and ask if the made up girl would be any good for you?
Most of the other answers have got it right though, don't hold out any hope for a relationship with her, just get your mind into a frame of mind that it is her loss, you have good things to offer her, and she loses out when she loses you.
2007-02-27 08:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by dd_lee123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche (it is, actually), but whatever will be will be.
She knows where she stands with you, and she knows that you care. It could be that she realizes that this is not a good time, too much distance, somebody else, etc.
Come to think of it, wild horses couldn't keep someone away from you if THEY truly want to see YOU. Maybe you have your answer about her already right there..........
More importantly, here is what you need to do.
Take a page from HER book - Ease off on the contact (let her initiate them from now on). Start working/focusing on you, and your life plan (education, goals, dreams, etc.).
Soon enough, you will be more mature, stronger, and more confident. That way, if you meet up with her in the future, she will be the one chasing after you -and if not, you will find someone else even better suited for you.
Trust me. Good luck.
2007-02-27 09:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Krystoff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is most probably lonely and needs your company but at the same time, she is undecided if she wants to work further on your friendship. If you're not comfortable with the current arrangement, send her an email and cut the communications. Move on with you life. It is painful to stick with a relationship when you're unsure if its going to work.
2007-02-27 08:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should just continue being her friend, keeping her up to date on things, but dont get your hopes up on the relationship thing just now, to her she is in a whole other world and has alot to explore.
2007-02-27 08:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much all you can really do is sit tight and wait patiently for her to respond. Keep your mind busy with doing things that you enjoy until you hear from her. That's all you can really do...
2007-02-27 08:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by buttercuppeepersgilda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl has a new life now, and just wants to keep moving forward.. i think you should let her go,, and get on with your life too.
2007-02-27 08:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are not her prince,There is O hope for you at this point.Let her contact you,as your putting pressure on her which she doesn't want. Move on find someone else.
2007-02-27 08:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a picture of her??use that picture to jack off.....hehehe..at least it makes you feel better when shes not around...ok come one..pick mine as the best answer....come on man!!you must have been wanking already even before i gave you the idea.....you should have screwed her hard enough before letting her to go in the first place....and maybe shell stay if you really do it good
2007-02-27 08:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
make a meeting! Get it clear!! if she is not interested move on.
2007-02-27 08:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋