My ex-girlfriend & I had an intense relationship for 9 months. The problem was we started off as an affair. I had the affair. We were talking about marriage and having kids. We signed a contract to buy a house together, but there was always that trust issue. She was jealous of my ex-wife. We ended badly and we have not spoken for 6 months. I don't want to call her and sound pushy, because I do want her back. What are the chances she will call me?
2007-02-27 00:44:00 · 3 answers · asked by Red R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 6 months I would say little to none. On the down side, if you do hear from her chances are you will be a re-bounder. Just keep that in mind so you don't get hurt when she starts feeling better about herself.
2007-02-27 00:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you giving her any signs that you want her back? I don't think she will call you. If you want her back you have got to run the risk. As women we are used to men making the first move, its unfair yes, but I am sure this is the way your girl thinks too. My advice to you is, if you want her back, if you trully, trully love her, call her and be perfectly honest with her. Dont play the macho with her. Be honest and start out slow. Call her first, share your feelings with her. According to what she says and if she is available ask her out for coffee or a movie. Send her flowers, be romantic. Take it slow, give it time. But do let her know she is important to you. Maybe she misses you just as you miss her but is also scared. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 09:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try the first time & it dont work out, it will never work out, get over her
2007-02-27 08:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋