2007-02-27 00:09:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah, if you are happy with the way you are leave it! marraige can destroy a relationship
2007-02-27 00:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by whispernikki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this a trick question? The timing is absolutely irrelevant. The only relevant factor is if you are a man or a woman.
If you are a man: You should NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER get married. What the hell is the matter with you? Instead of marriage, why don't you save yourself some trouble. Go to the bank, take out half your money, give it to her, let her kick you in the nuts and screw her old boyfriend right in front of you and call it a day.
Now if you are a women on the other hand, take advantage and latch on now, before all the men come to their senses and you are alone!!!
2007-02-27 08:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to spend the rest of your life with the person than YES.
I got married after four years of being together ;) and it works.... so far ...
Besides, if you are together and you are happy the marriage cert will be only the confirmation of your engagement in that relationship :)
Good luck!
2007-02-27 08:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by didi1083 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what you want. Someone on here asked the other day after 8 months!
3 years is plenty of time to decide if someone's got a future with you or not, so only you can answer this one.
2007-02-27 08:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Funky B Funky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not if its both what you want then go for it. I got married in september last year and we had been together for 10 years. If you know he is the one and you love and trust him do it. Good Luck x
2007-02-27 08:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right.
if you have to ask, then you obviously arent convinced. 3 years is a decent time to be together but so is the rest of your life so you want to be sure. Dont follow the crowd by going along with what everyone else thinks. Do what YOU want in your heart.
2007-02-27 08:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by millayhighsociety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that both of you are ready to commit then do it, but don't feel pressurised to do just because of family pressure and people hinting at you to tie the knot. Just make sure you are both 100% ready to settle down, marriage is just a piece of paper, it doesn't change anything, just a ring on your finger, expense to do it then more expense if you feel you made a mistake and divorce which so many marriages do nowadays. Marriage is for life not just a party !!!!
2007-02-27 08:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by diyakosangasary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask US, total strangers, then no you shouldn't.
This should be something you and your other half should be talking about, and not coming here and asking.
I know people who got engaged after 6 years, and people engaged and married within 6 months.
Its all up to the couple.
2007-02-27 08:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be whether you and your partner is ready to get married. Geting married should not be based on the years you've been together, but whether you and your partner is in love and want to seal your love with a marriage.
2007-02-27 08:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am wit my man 3yrs,live together got a 9mth baby the lot but wouldnt marry yet.we are still adapting to each others personality and finding out new good and bad points bout one another, i'd personally give it another 2yrs. if u plan 2 spend the rest of your life with this man 2yrs is nothing. best wishes
2007-02-27 08:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mona-Me25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, are u good together, can u see yourself together in the future.
Can u afford a wedding? I'm not married but my friend found it v stressful planning it all
If its not broke don't fix it. Good luck
2007-02-27 08:22:53 · answer #11 · answered by uk.housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋