I am too shy. I have difficulty talking to girls and never had a girlfriend? What should I do?

Answer 1

First off, figure out what is holding you back. Are you afraid of being rejected? Are you afraid you may trip on your own words? If that is the case then as was said in another answer, go out of your comfort zone. You never know unless you try and you will never try unless you have faith in yourself. Get out there. Life is too short.

Answer 2

Girls are not any different than you. They all go to the bathroom as you do, they all talk stupid sometimes like i am sure you do, so just imagine everybody else as a human being. Don't waist your time being shy about it, or else you'll be left all by yourself.

Breeth in and out, put your feet out there, and start walking. Take your head phones so that way it can keep you confident. PUt a chewing gum in your mouth, and pretend you're a big man dood cool one. Then one girl will at least approach to you, and another running behind you, the other calling you, and your next question will be 'how can i get rid of those women, i've had enough'

We can be fun, but also men's worst naggers!

Answer 3

Dude, you HAVE to overcome your shyness..
Being shy as a guy is sweet, but it will become lame when it is unnecessary.
Try to start with your neighbour, or classmate if you are schooling, or collegues if you are working. Its not hard.
You can start a conversation by asking her about the weather(which is lame,i noe, but still something)
Or your current project.
You can even just say "hi, how are you?"
I used to be very shy too...but i overcame it by thinking that nobody knows the real me..so i act like whoever i want to be i.e a happy-go-lucky person. Now i don't have any more difficulty in talking to guys.
All the best! = )

Answer 4

Shy, that is a weird word, you feeling shy around particular people is more a reflection on who those people are rather than who you are. If those people are making you feel shy, then you shouldn't want to be near them, that is what the feeling is, it is part of your fight or flight response, if you are feeling shy, then it is your reflexes telling you that something isn't right and you don't want to associate with those people, so go and do the things you enjoy doing and some of those people should not make you feel shy, if they do then go and do something else that you enjoy doing, and keep changing / expanding the things that you enjoy doing, you'll be expanding your life, and expanding your network of friends and so you will be expanding the number of girls that you meet. Don't try to overcome being shy, instead try to find the scene that doesn't make you feel shy. Find out who YOU are.

What should you do to get a girlfriend?
Nothing, being lonely is hard, but get used to it because even if you find the right girl you will be lonely anyway, it is not about finding that particular person it is about finding that particular frame of mind that builds a network of friends around you, and a girlfriend is only a part of the network, not the entire thing.
Get yourself a hobby, and do the things that you enjoy, and don't be afraid to explore your feminine side. There are the standard things guys do for kicks like football and cars and boxing and reading and fitness classes, some guys like to do weights, some prefer to do martial arts. You could go and do courses in things like botany, or mountain climbing, skiing. There are heaps of places that you can spend your time.
The catch is, that you seem to be expressing that you are feeling lonely right now. Well, loneliness is the path to depression, so rather than looking for a girlfriend to ease that loneliness, find mates to ease that loneliness, whether those mates are male or female.

YOU MUST ALWAYS BE WARY
There are lots of selfish (skanks) women out there who are looking for sperm donors, someone who will make them pregnant, and then pay child support for the next 20 years, while they claim single parents pension. You must avoid allowing yourself to get trapped or manipulated into getting a girl pregnant, otherwise you will be paying for it for the rest of your life. The way it will work, they'll make you believe that they love you and that the two of you will be together forever, then she'll get pregnant and she'll be draining you a bit more and a bit more and a bit more, and then the kid will be born and that's when the **** will start, and then the next thing you know you'll be kicked out of your own house, and she'll get the government to force you to pay child support, so you'll have to pay her about 20 - 30% of your gross wages, on top of that you have to pay income tax, as well as all your own normal expenses like food and rent and clothes, while she goes out and shags whoever happens her way trying to trap another bloke into getting her pregnant again so she'll be getting single parents pension from the government for two kids and also be getting child support from two guys.

A good place to find people who are generally good willed is the church, you can also learn a lot about life from these people if you consider that something like 90% of the population of the world is linked to some form of religion. Whether you believe in it or not, just spending time with them will help you to ease your loneliness, and show you some morals and ways to behave around other people.

Good Luck
and don't get caught by a skank!!

Answer 5

Err... Get a life? Hun, I don't know how old yew are, but just because yew haven't had a gf befoe is no reason to get upset. Yew will have a gf when that one lucky lady comes along. As for the shy thing, join clubs, social events, etc. Yew'll meet plenty of people there. Yew'll soon feel more out-going and confident.

Answer 6

1.get out of your shyness most important
2. be cool lol
3.it's only advice if you're to shy around girl why won't you talk to a girl one at the time.
4. Trust yourself cuz they might be a girl around who likes you so make the first move
5. If you too shy to do that make a paper air plane that says can i talk to you
Lol

Answer 7

just go about it in steps. for one week just ask a random girl an easy question like what time is it or what's today's date. the next week do the same except introduce yourself. then you'll find that you'll have at least several female acquaintances and if you're attracted to one of them try to talk to her more. ask her more questions no ask her how her day has been. and really listen to her (don't stare). depending on the type of girls you like ask her an intriguing question. you know something that promotes thoughts. if she asks you to do something like help her with a project do it. then begin to compliment her and with your words (either written in a letter or spoken) let her feel like she is the most beautiful girl in the world and she'll be yours.

Answer 8

Hello! I use to be shy at one point in my life and I will tell you I missed out on alot of things. I have always been good at sports and I missed out on showing people how good I am because I was shy. Try to just be yourself and forget what other people think, if they don't like you so what it's not going to kill you but you have to learn to be comfy with yourself in order to be yourself around other people. Trust me when I say don't worry about what other people think of you because that will hold you back from alot of things in life. Just be you, it's cool.

Later.

Answer 9

I know it might sound like a crappy thing to do… but start out at the bottom. The fat girls, the ugly girls…something like that. Talk to them, build up your confidence, Learn how to interact with girls. Then slowly make your way towards the girls you really want.



Good luck!

Answer 10

Just relax go out with a girl does not have to be a date it helps you get use to them it works but you have to force your self if you wont to get out of this shyness so try that and you should be good