I love a gal very much.. and i want to be with her.. i really do.. the story start when her last birthday.. i said i like her.. and soon i noticed tat i fell in love wif her.. very deeply.. always think of her.. we went out a few times.. i thought she would like me too.. and she did like me.. so i was quite happy.. but i knoe tat she loves a guy before.. she said she will nv fell in love wif this guy anymore.. but this guy finds her when he goes out.. saying he miss her.. i let her sms him.. because i trust her.. until the last day i went out wif her.. she call me to give her up.. i said i couldn't.. and we quarrel until she told me tat.. the guy tat she loves before got a new gal.. and she was so sad.. i say she is cheating herself.. she know.. but because of personal problems can't be wif him.. i said.. u cheated me.. u didn't like me.. but u said u did.. in the end she end wif.. dun talk wif me anymore.. but i still talk wif her.. she cried for him.. still want him back to her side.
2007-02-26 22:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by cookiesproblems 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i havent said finish.. i couldnt just leave her.. is too deep.. she thought i am just like him.. means will leave her.. i couldn't and i wont.. the guy leaves her because of another gal.. her fren told me just leave her for sometime.. tat is her personality.. and she likes u too.. she told me before.. i just want to cheer her up and forget about this guy and come to back to me.. but i couldn't bear my eyes see her so sad and down.. because i promise her.. tat i will take care of her.. cherish her as i do.. help her always when she is down.. i really want her and need her to be wif me.. she is happy when she is wif me.. i go out wif her.. she was so cheerful.. i want to see her smile soon.. i really wann to see again.. and i always hurt her.. i want to redeem wat i have done.. i can't leave her.. teach me wat can i do to get her back..
2007-02-26 23:03:19 · update #1
she haven't dump me.. she knows that she won't get him back.. she just need sometime.. to accept me back.. but i don't want to follow the guy's footstep.. she said.. I AM HIM.. i don't want to leave.. i know i might be stupid but i think this would be my last relation with a gal..
2007-02-26 23:11:51 · update #2
What drama. Is this some chapter taken out of Days of Our Lives or The Bold and the Beautiful? I think you should just move on and forget about her altogether or else you'll just end up in her position, which I can tell is not a very pleasant one. Don't bother holding grudges against anyone because it's a total waste of time and energy. I know it's easier said than done but that's the best thing anyone can do.
2007-02-26 22:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by @( Ö,)@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that with what I'm gonna tell you, you're not going to agree with me and even hurt you a bit. But I will be sincere with you and tell it to you as if you were my brother.
If I were you, I would leave everything as it is, though you're gonna hurt yourself. The reason is, this girl doesn't know what she really want. You should think about a thing. If you manage to start building a relationship with her, but after a while she start cheating on you with the other guy because she will fall for him. I think that would hurt very much.
So I think you should leave her and try to find someone else who truly loves you and there is no other guy in her life.
Sorry for being harsh with you but I've been in the same boat as you are now and after five and a half months with her, she cheated on me and a week after the cheat she left me. I loved her very much and gave her everything she wanted. She used to tell me that she loves me and wants to marry me someday but as I'm saying, she felt for the other guy and cheated on me.
Hope this helps mate and Good Luck my friend and may you be happy with your life in the future.
2007-02-26 23:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ey dude , headz up
ur rival is just playin u , this the dumbest and easiest game ex-bfs play , playing hard to get or super-out-there-datin, just to make her jealous.
u gotta be manly and controlling for a while if u wanr this to work, just try to seperate their wayz for a while , time is one ur side
2007-02-26 22:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes,setting someones free is the best thing to do to express how much you love the person,no matter how sad or painful it may be.dont torture your self by loving someone who doesnt love you in return,try to let her go,and find someone else who deserves your love and kindness.gud luck men!
2007-02-26 22:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Bone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have the answer... you knew she cheated you. Sure you deserve a better girl, just give up on her and look for someone else.
2007-02-26 22:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gay its very simple.if u love her very much.just take her to some place.and say that u lover her very much.and avoid her x-bf from her.thats all.u make her happy.and do alll she wants so that she should feel that ur the one who make her happiest girl in the world.then she don't go from u.try this ..and make her feel that ur the one.best of luck.
2007-02-26 23:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by JAGANATHAN Mk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seriously if you think you can be there only as a friend but don't let her drain you emotionally if to painful for you please try hard to forget her and keep away from her it will only drive you mad sorry your hurt and good luck chuck :)
2007-02-26 22:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space let her figure it out on her own someday it will hit her that she cant have him
2007-02-26 22:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl is befooling herself. y mingle up with such a girl who herself doesnt know exactly wat is she looking for. its hard but leave her and move on.
2007-02-26 22:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋