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My daughter Renzi,

I gave birth to you, but before you were born I was a boy aged 14 and at that age I started flirting with girls. There is a lady I told myself that I was going to marry and we would exchange letters in a classroom. But her parents relocated to the far country and that was painfull. Two years later I met this other lady and I can not mention names what if some are our next door neighbours today. This lady I thought is the lover of my life and I thought she would be your mother. I slept with her three times but on the fourth time I felt I needed something new, then I met this slender girl and I dropped the other lady and she was heart brocken and she nearly died by trying to drink pills, a lot of them. The new lady we did not sleep because after I dumped the other she decided to dump me too as she thought I would do the same to her. Then there was this girl when I was 19 who loved me so much but I had no feelings for her. But out of pity I went out with her and slept with her but inside I had no peace. It was when I saw your mother that I realise this is the woman I should spend my life with and there and then I decided that your mother and I should get married. Based on this my child I always have a fear that somebody might do to you what I did to the girls I mentioned before I married your mother. I may seem strong to you but inside there is that fear that some boys may take advantage of you and that may destroy your future, My girl just take that into consideration when you make your choices in life.

Your Dad.

That is how we fathers feel always and sometime we may not share our experiences with our daughters.

2007-02-26 21:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 1 0

I have to agree with dd, as guys we know what we were like, as well as our friends, when it came to young women. Although we did not think about it or even care at the time now that we have daughters we know how much of a player all guys can be and do not want our daughters to get hurt as we or our friends may have done to young women in the past. We can also see more easily into their boyfriends game plan than women ever could,

2007-02-27 00:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0 0

Yes we do. Just remember that we were young,dumb,& after one thing only when we were your age. Now we have wised up and relized how stupid,immature,selfish,hurtful we were to the young ladies. Do we want our daughters to go thru that, hell no. But due to the way life is boys continue to think with the wrong head,girls continue to get hurt,fathers continue to worry about the most precious thing there is,our daughters. Take care young lady & remember that your dad will always love & care deeply about you no matter what.

2007-02-26 21:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As a father of 2 girls DD has the best answer. Way to go dd

2007-02-26 21:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by snoppy 2 · 0 0

yes my husband found it really hard to let go and let her grow up x

2007-02-26 21:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0 1

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