That is so bull.
Look logically.
Who has so many offeres and has it so easy they can demand the other one pays for meals, cinema, expensive trinkets to impress them and have that sex compete over them?
Over and over and over again I have seen girls 16plus (age on con) even 15 year olds
ALWAYS more experienced then the guys...
Where the guys are the shy ones, the inexperienced ones, the lonley and needy ones who dont have a clue about the basics of chatting up and charm and kissing well into late teenas and early twenties...
Whilst all the girls were rarely without a boyfriend or getting like 20 offers a night in clubs and parties for more then a few weeks.
The guys were more sensitive, often having been hurt over and over scared to even ask the girls out.
Whilst the girls had all the confidence.
Several could beat up the guys if they annoyed them.
It was always the guys getting dumped and hurt and upset as they girls could be so picky
2007-02-26 20:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
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Most of the time the nieve dumb as cemnent parents with heads in the sands either would not beleive or know their kids esp the girls were smoking, drinking, clubbing, doing POT. or Ecstacy.
Going to underground illegal raves, parties, and getting into nightclubs. Certtainly 18 rated movies from 14.
I didnt get a date and proper kiss till 19, several other mates were worse.
Only one girl was still a virgin by that age .
The 16-18 age group where the ones normally seen playing sucky face and feel up sprawled all over the nightclub stairs, seats, corners etc.
The girls loved the attention, and know exactly what they were doing , pulling the guys into the club toilets or firescapes.
Or later boasting about having done it on roundabouts, cars, golf courses, soft toy display in the toy department at work.
They guys maybe all motuh but ususlly the shy ones...
Thats reality.
All these parents should remember as things dont change.
2007-02-26 20:54:15 · update #1
Plus girlfriend to me and others is a specail friend... yes you fancy them and want to make out and stuff.
Also cuddle, snuggle, be soppy, hand over flowers, be in love and all the rest even is you started thinking nice boobs...
All that nice boobs Want each other stuff is just to get people together and coupling up.
And things are most intense and specail at that age when its new.
If you delay say with strict parents or parents who did not teach you properly.
Or were shy, clueless at chatting up, or simply inexperienced or needy for your age and lonley...
You Are no preditor and the girls are far more advanced.
And as for into one thing...
er you saying girls are clueless? get real they are more keen then you.
And manipulating guys with ther deliberate pulling tricks, pulling clothes and puppet mastering the guys
2007-02-26 20:57:58 · update #2
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Why dont shy guys or inexperienced guy date girls their age.
emnnn lets see.
as girls that age only want experienced confident guys who know what they are doing.
So guys go with those with similar levels of experience and maturity as the only ones they realte to...
Thats reality. Not some evil deveient preditory nonsense.
its like if you are a trainee you go for a trainee job with other trainees, not for a doctors job when even though others are qualifed doctors whilst you are at school level.
Girls want qualifications up to their level or above
2007-02-26 21:01:05 · update #3
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Think why do you think girls put all that effort in looks, clothes etc.
To play hopscotch?
2007-02-26 21:02:32 · update #4
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(p.s. its not always like that) itll all turn out later and u will grow a happy family. but dont let all of this stop u from that
Russel
Incorrect...
Unless things work out in mid to late teens you will always be behind... its all a competition and if you start the race late you will always be hurt and alone and if you get with anyone it hardly lasts any time as you are clueless and they have all had long term live in realtioships and know it all.
Nobodyb wants trainees its like jobs.
And if you go for younger girls who are at similar experience and who you get on with people think your or a pervey jerk and rubbish so you end up alone and hurt, over and over.
Perverts and manipulators, ad assholes and nasty types can be any age. and more likly to be the same age... Aint you seen the news lately
its all teenager boys shooting and killing each other, dealing crakc and stuff...
We were always nice and friendly and looked out for others in
2007-02-26 21:06:28 · update #5
the rock music scene where if you fall over 5 people pcik you up.
And couples were all in love,
But its always the girls doing most of the dumping and real nasty about ti.
they guys usually want to be friends after, its the girls who are all these nasty preditory heart breaking types
2007-02-26 21:07:49 · update #6
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Somone posted a very good point in my other post...
think of the movie Dirty Dancing...
Where the person who the parents approved of all smart and proper was the jerk who got a girl pregnant ending up with her almost dying due to a back steet abortion.
Whilst the older guy Johnny, the rebel who the parents hated turned out to be the decent, responsible, caring guy who the daughter loved.
Thats pretty much the case Ive seen, those not quite like the movie
2007-02-27 01:45:21 · update #7
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ajpw0tlUw.nxRFMbs_XQQpbkMBV.?qid=20070228023052AAnET0W
2007-02-27 21:54:04 · update #8
i think ur tlking abt the girls who have belts instead of skirts n dnt seem to realise that a top is meant to COVER the breasts...lol. i hate those kinds. when i was 17 i went out with a 30 year old. shock horror huh? mum hated it and tried to get him arrested, but me being over 17 there was bugger all they could do. its wasn't a sexual relationship (well...not until i was 19) but more of a supportive one for us both. we're still good friends and he's actually being more supportive than my baby's father!! (30 weeks preg). i think maybe its just people don't want to think their kids are more mature than their years...or just sluts. lol.
good question tho
2007-02-28 12:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logically? There is no logic with parental fears! It has been that way for more than seventy thousand years!!! There is no logic here my Friend.
Here is something else you should know. The man never picks the woman... it is the woman who picks the man.
If the woman picks the man for dinner and a date and that's all? Then the man accepts it or leaves the female alone. He can always find a woman who will pick him for herself.
Girls are as shy as the boys are; neither gender has a copyright on shyness.
It is not sensitivity that most of the boys have, it is a fear that most of we males have: a fear of rejection.
And Yeeaah!! sex is a commodity for most of the human race, always has been, and modern man/woman are not going to change that. Dinner or not.
The girls are going to beat up most of the boys because a man knows " you never treat a woman like a man " so of course they would not strike a woman. Whether the fool female is beating on him or not. Balling up your fists and striking back at a woman is treating her like a man.
(this is why men are always fighting amongst themselves, we treat each other like men!)
As for the confidence of a woman? She has both that right and prerogative. This is how they winnow out the woosies in order to find the mate they can produce a family with.
As for the guys always getting dumped on? Well take a look at the family welfare roll. You will find that the sole provider is always the woman. Because she is the one who the kids, and responsabilities are dumped on. The man simply walks away with another female.
Women have always been picky for the most part. They have to be, they need the reassurance that the male will provide in life later on. They have to be sure the mate they will be with will not fail the family.
That's it! It's all simple human relationships,,,,it is not easy to live, or live with; but it is that simple an answer.
2007-02-27 05:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by the old dog 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mick you obviously have issues with girls maybe you been dumped once too often or maybe their parents discovered you were way to old for them, seek someone your own age or older if these little girls seem to be too much for you to handle I have 2 daughters and they are not angels but neither are they as evil as you make young girls out to be. We know where our daughters are at night cause we are responsible parents they are at home safe and sound with plenty of things to do and they are happy with that at least not bumping into someone like you. If they go to friends we phone there parents and can phone anytime we want to know they are there or even their mobiles it's called trusting your children,if they get in any bother we pick them up straight away. You seriously have issues you haven't been getting your own way with the girls and so instead slander all of them sorry if you been hurt in past but if thats the case your old enough to realise not everyone the same get professional help please :)
2007-02-27 06:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by clare w 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i spent a long time answering this but answers messed up so all i can say to sum it up is girls are not as evil as you are trying to make us out guys know whats going on and they think if they give us what we want then we will in turn give them what they desire and some girls do that. I find it funny that you are making 14 year old girls seem evil cunning manipulators. you play guys to be the victim but yall know what you are doing. if you didnt want to be treated a certain way then you wouldnt
2007-02-27 05:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremysmom05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls who are 15/16 and have more experience than their older guy are normally called 'sl*pp***' where I live.And as for us girls being man eating beasts who set out to do evil unto men you are way wrong. Men can be just the same infact probably worse. Men spread vicious vindictive rumors about ex gfs and humiliate them infront of their peers (as in my past expeiences!) so you are just as bad.
2007-02-27 08:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents want to see the best in their children, male or female.
You sound like yo have a chip on your shoulder about something. Hope that some girl proves you wrong sometime!!!
2007-02-27 04:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is so long AND BORING that it's better than reading a book at bedtime. It certainly sent me to sleep trying to work out what you are trying to ask. I thought this was supposed to be QUESTION, not a paperback book. With all of your questions it seems that are you are in serious need of help as you make so many remarks about people you never know and never will as to the way they lead their lives (according to you) and I wonder what sort of dubious pleasure you get from it all.
2007-02-28 03:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dover Soles 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, many girls are experienced and predatory, but most aren't. The problem is the experienced ones often look like butter wouldn't melt in their mouth. Their parents think they're angels.
2007-02-27 04:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with kelly. don tfeel all beat up. just let them think what they want. (p.s. its not always like that) itll all turn out later and u will grow a happy family. but dont let all of this stop u from that.
BE A HAPPY CAMPER :d
2007-02-27 05:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are saying that you have had bad experiences with girls and you haven't got a girlfriend and it doesn't look like you're going to get one any time soon. Yes ?
2007-02-27 04:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋