Im quite young, and i was going out with a guy quite older then me. he is 27 and i am 18.
He doesnt act his age, and we get on awesomely together. I still live with my parents so they didnt know about our 4 month relationship. I was too scared to tell them. His in love with me but i broke up with him.
I know its wrong but its so hard to let go. we still always hang out and spend time together. but is it wrong?
his such a nice guy and would never do anything to hurt me.
but i dont think my parents would understand :(
any advice????
thanks
2007-02-26 20:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by CAITLYN! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A tough one girl! But there is the big question to consider...SEX! Is that all he is after? Or not. Why is he not with someone his own age? Its not impossible to find your soul mate in an older man or younger woman. Like I said, it snot an easy one and your parents still have a lot to say in your life, especially at your age. You are not together now, so maybe come clean with your folks and see what they say?
Good luck
2007-02-26 20:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are 18 yrs old so you are old enough to make your own decisions.
If your going to hangout with him don't give him mixed signals if you have no intentions on being with him because of your parents. Walk a mile in his shoes and see how you would react if you where him. If you love him like you say you do then be with him.
I'm sure your parents are aware of your age and know that you can make your own decisions and just be there for you if things don't turn out right.
Good Luck your a big girl now so be one go for what you want.
2007-02-27 04:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because they don't understand, doesn't mean that you should dump him. You should have continued the relationship if you really liked him.....and proven to your parents that its a serious relationship, and not some puppy dog thing or a booty call.
But I guess, since you dumped him, you didn't really care about him in the first place. If I had something good, I'd hold on to it. I wouldn't dispose of it.
2007-02-27 04:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Abby C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, make sure the guy is not married yet. then, talk to your parents. who knows, they might understand you. if this guy is great and he loves you, age does not matter so much. talk to your parents. be honest with them. after all, you're already 18. you are of age already. make the move.
2007-02-27 04:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋