I've an online friend from a couple of months. We've already exchanged cell numbers. She once told me that she wants to see me. I said ok. The date and venue of meeting is fixed. The place is well crowded.........BUT she wants to bring her friend(a girl) with her.
Why on earth she wants to bring her friend with her on our first meeting? She said she just wants to introduce her friend and she never goes anywhere without her. She also tells me not to bring any of my friends.
Aren't we supposed to meet alone, what could be the reason behind this?
Please chat with me to answer if possible. I'll be able to explain better.
2007-02-26 20:17:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women mostly do that for security purposes and to check you out basically, friends opinion for her counts especially if she has bad experiences with men. First impression last, you know. Just let her be if you really want to meet and be friends with her. You will meet her friends later on anyways, y not now? If she finds you harmless and gentleman, they will make an alibi so the friend will go and let you and her alone. Its just all scripted, if she finds you brute etc... they will make an alibi to get rid of you or they will say they have an appointment or so and so..... just be patient and just be you. goodluck!
2007-02-26 20:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any women in her right mind wouldn't meet someone from the Internet alone that she has never met before. Think about it.I don't blame her one bit. Look at all the creeps and pervs out their.Assuming your not one will be decided at the meeting by her and her friend. If I was her friend I would talk her out of it completely so she didn't go to the meeting. Meaning ONLINE FRIEND.
2007-02-27 04:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by snoppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with her bringing a freind. I do see something suspicious about her not wanting you to bring a freind. Are you not concerned about your safety?
Unless...she is under age, therefore, confusing her with being insecure to actually being immature. Hmmm...maybe you should cancel the meeting and meet someone else, but just not online. There are too many crazies out there!
2007-02-27 04:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical security alone could be a legit reason.
Yes, she could be insecure about meeting you, on several levels.
Frankly, I'd call this a "twofer". You're getting to date two girls at once? Yeah, that's a dream.
2007-02-27 04:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants "menage a trois".
2007-02-27 04:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by BRIANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋