In Love with a great guy and at first, our relationship started out very romantic, hot and heavy now we don't make love and I feel abonded. We both live in different states, and am visiting him now. I have come to also Love his family too, they think the world of me, and have welcomed me with open arms. I am leaving to go home soon, he says he is going to visit me, and meet my family. I want our relationship to work out, what should I do? Lost at what to do, or say to him? Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
2007-02-26 20:13:34 · 10 answers · asked by Janice 10 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships never work. People will fool themselves and say they do, but they don't. That's the problem.
2007-02-26 20:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be in a relationship JUST for the sex. What got yall hot and heavy in the begining there are alot of things you can do to spice up your relationship. Google it. lol. You seem like you want this to last for a really really long time. Focus on the time you get to spend with him and how amazing just being with him is. and pray that everything goes ok when he visits your folks. spend some alone time together, yes its wonderful to be with family but you cant always have people around you to when you guys want to be intiment. If you guys love each other as much as it sounds then thats all that really matters. Good luck on everything!
2007-02-27 04:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is an emotion; feeling. Making LOVE is the physical part to express the emotion. LOVE; the emotion, doesn't mean that there is going to be a physical expression of LOVING someone.
Reevaluate your relationship. Maybe he bit off more than he can chew by announcing that he LOVES you or felt pressured and just spoke the words without regards to the meaning behind them. Without a firm commitment, long distance romances rarely work out to everyone involved equally. Find out where your relationship stands, each others expectations and go from there. Honesty and time are the ultimate judges in the resolution of matters in the heart.
2007-02-27 04:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to force him to love you. "Making Love" is totally different thing that "Loving". Don't mix Lust in your Love. You're both visiting each others' families is a good sign of your relationship. Don't wax it up only because of your desires. Think a lot before doing anything else than telling him how much do you love him.
Make your intentions known to him, be a good friend first, have a little chat first and then think of having sex - making love (if thats what you mean).
; )
2007-02-27 04:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.Brahmbhatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a very frank and open heart-to-heart with him about what's going on in your relationship. What's going on that the physical side has gone to zero? That's a Big Red Flag.
2007-02-27 04:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to have to start an answer by asking a question, but how long have the two of you been together? If it has been awhile the sparks have just frizzled and you need to figure out how to make them sizzle again.
2007-02-27 04:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making love is not the only sign that he loves you. he wants to meet your family, a sign that he is serious. relax. just show him that you love him in your own way. follow your instincts. be yourself.good luck.
2007-02-27 04:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him let him know what u feel.. and i hope he does the same too..cos good and effective communication is key to a good realtionship. :)
Sex is good, but leave tt AFTER you both got married!
all the best!
2007-02-27 04:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If you can talk about it then maybe it can be fixed. If you can't talk about it then you may not be able to talk about other things that will come up in the future.
2007-02-27 04:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only i can say "you are very lucky". good luck!
2007-02-27 04:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by PG_13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋