My friend's queen just gave birth to an adorable little kitten a week ago, she's worried the kitten might not like her r'not be soo friendly, what are the chances of that happening? knowing that the mum is sooo sweet with her, any advice on this?
Thnx
2007-02-26 20:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by CupCake 3 in Pets ➔ Cats
Contrary to what people believe it's important to hold the kitten from birth so they can get used to human smell and form a bond from the beginning. Make sure the mother sees where the kitten is at all times while she is holding it. Do not take the kitten from her sight cause this will really upset her.
I also read that when the kitten begins to walk just sit down where it is and allow it to climb up on your legs and your lap and play with it. This also helps strengthen a bond. I actually tried this method once on two kittens we were given that were terribly scared of us and it worked like a charm.
Tell her not to worry. I am sure the kitten will love her as much as she already loves it.
2007-02-26 21:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Turtle 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Best bet is to let the kitten and mom be for the most part. Handling for a little bit each day is ok but be careful not to upset mom! Most of the time a little loving once a day and more as they get older is enough for kittens to become very sweet...
2007-02-27 04:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the moment, she must leave the kitten alone and not touch it much, because the mother is breastfeeding it. When the kitten opens his eyes and starts walking around, in about 3 weeks, she can hold it and pet it. The kitten will definitely love her. Once he is a little older, like 5-6 weeks, they'll start playing, she can hold him and let him sleep in her arms, etc.
Oh, and NEVER give him milk, let him breastfeed properly, cow's milk gives kittens diarrhea.
2007-02-27 04:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A soon as the mom allows it, have her handle the kitten often. This is usually between 2-3 weeks old.
2007-02-27 07:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by KathyS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make a cat like you,they're very stubborn and very opinionated.When the cat decides to be friends with you it's because you've earned it.About the kitten,be patient,it'll will come around eventually.That is if you treat it well,of course.Remember it's just a baby,it only trusts its mommy for now!
2007-02-27 05:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by LauraPalmer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the mother cat is loving & trusting of its owners for protection, etc., there should be nothing to fear. I have taken newborns & literally placed them on their moms so they could feed, without any problems at all.... and have stroked them while feeding.
Animals have a keen sense of being able to sniff out persons to be wary of, & those who they can trust wholeheartedly.
If you approach an animal very loudly, it will defensively do what it must to survive. But if you are gentle, quiet & calm, they will not be alarmed. Trust must always be openly won by both parties.
2007-02-27 04:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When the kitten is a bit older, make sure you play with it a lot, and rough play too. This forms a real bond. I have done this with mine & my nans cat, and have a great relationship with both.
2007-02-27 06:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Richo Fev 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its all up to your friend how good she is taking care and how much love and intension she give's to the kitty if she give enouf atention to the kitten then it is litle posibel that the kitten wil hate her .
2007-02-27 04:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by xa qiao 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should just spend time with it and love it like her other. It won't grow to hate her if she treats it right =)
2007-02-27 04:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Squintz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gentle, talk softly don;t make sudden movements, try to spend time with them, cuddle them,
2007-02-27 04:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Unknown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋