ppl around me r not trying to understandmy feelings.my husband is going away for a week.he has not been away from me for the past 5yrs now(that is after our marriage).so now when he is leaving(may be jus for a week)but it is very difficult for me.i feel like crying....when i ask some one for advice they say iam being childish or very dependent on him.it is not the case i have got attached to him so much now in that i cant spend a day with out him.i know his job demands him to go out of station for a week.i try to console myself but after sometime when i think he is going to leave me for a week i start to cry immediately....i know he will come back in a week,he is doing it for us(to go up the ladder in job)....i know i know i know but my heart is not understanding all this...half my heart says iam childish and half cries when i think he is going away for a week....pls help me out....
2007-02-26 19:08:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Its gr8 to see how much u love ur husband!!!But u know there are many more things in life. It is not good to be so emotionally dependent on anybody. U should love but be in a position where u have the mental strength to face any situation individually. Moreover I feel it is very important to be away from ur love for sometime as it makes it grow all the more.
U can plan a special event for ur husband in his absence. U can surprise him with something when he is back.
U should think of innovative ideas and make him miss u more than what u miss him. good luck
2007-02-26 19:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not childish to love your husband so much. Thats a good thing. But it could be an anxiety disorder. Do you get anxious when hes gone? It would be good to talk to him about it. Tell him that you dont like for him to be gone, that you worry about him, and ask for him to call whenever he gets a chance. Also dont sit around missing him. Its good to get involved with other things so you dont always have your mind on the fact that hes gone. Sounds like you love your husband very much, just remember its only a week. Have him call you whenever he can, and pick up a fun hobby. Its never easy to let someone go, even for a little while, after your so used to having them around. It will take time, but you'll be able to have your heart and your mind working together.
2007-02-27 03:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do sound very dependent on the guy. That is not good. Is there any other people or activities in your life, if not get them. You are a very good person, but you shouldn't be feeling this way. You could benefit from psychological counseling- Group or individual.
2007-02-27 03:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋