I love her, but she loves him. She came "back" to me to find a house to live with me because she can not stand the people with whom she and her boyfriend are living. In the past three weeks, we did everything from kiss, hug to touch except sex. So I have a deep talk with her, and found out she still love her boyfriend, but she and her bf are having a little problem, they are like "trial separate" at the moment. You know what the problem is? The problem is her anger problem. He gave her four year's time to change it, and she agreed. And I asked her why do you love him, because her bf is kinda short, ugly, poor in study and selfish, and she answers she thought as long as she started a relationship, she's gotta be serious about it and won't end it easily unless the other one do so. She, as the most lovely and sexy woman in my eyes, said she sorta looks down herself. That's why she'd rather be a pet of some low quality guy. (at least in my eyes)
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2007-02-26 19:05:20 · 8 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Last three weeks we had the best moments in our lives, we laughed and laughed and laughed, even she said she is happier with me than him, and she did more things for me than him, she doesn't like to leave him for me, instead, she will leave me for him. After another deep talk last night, and we know I am kind to her because I want to be her boyfriend, and she is kind to me because she want to be my friend, and after the word I said about how I wasted my love. She is kinda unhappy and decided to move out after two weeks. --- not to her boyfriend's, but to someone she never knows. Because she thinks it's GOOD FOR BOTH OF US.
I love her, I cried and cried in my room last night. And now I want to hear from you, what should I do? I am really confused and, a little heartbroken.
2007-02-26 19:05:40 · update #1
Run like hell buddy. She will always go back to this ****** because there are some girls who, for whatever reason, enjoy being hurt, neglected, and used. You are her way to get revenge(partially). But either way, she will break your heart.
2007-02-26 19:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Theodore B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell u something u have to have some self steam for ur own good, u might be cute, handsome and noble as I can see by the way u act with her but u have to 1st start loving ur self more u deserve the best and she might not be the one for u becasue she doesn't want to leave who is hurting her and mistreaten her, she is confortable in that situation and u should move on and find someone that will really appreciate who u are and what u can give. Read Jeremiah 29:1
God bless u and will pray u can find a good woman for ur life..
2007-02-27 03:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by chinitaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has already made up her mind about the other man. She gave you a try and it apparently didn't convince her that you were better. If she means a lot to you, see how friendship goes. If you are still in love with her after some time, it may be best to see and talk to her less often, so it is less painful when you realize she won't let you have her. After she becomes unattractive to you, it will be easy to become friends again.
2007-02-27 03:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by db 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see that she doesn't want to be with you she only sees you as a friend and nothing more. Take the hint she moved out because you were constantly trying to make her want to be with you and she clearly doesn't want the same.
Of course it hurts when you love someone the way you do and they don't feel the same.
2007-02-27 03:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't want to hurt your feelings but she does not act like she loves you and I hope you find a wonderful girl out there soon(that deserves all of your love and affections) Good luck
2007-02-27 03:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with her but don't push her. She is in a very delicate situation right now, knowing she probably messed up her relationship with one man because of her temper?? That she is comfortable with you is a good sign and weighs heavy in your favor. She needs time to herself and to sort out her feelings, and my advice o you at this point of time is don't push her. Let her sort out her feelings(with a little help from you) but no no no pushing.
2007-02-27 03:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be. Remember, that Jesus loves you and will never leave you nor forsake you. God bless you!!
2007-02-27 03:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like run around sue,forget her she will never be content with one person
2007-02-27 03:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋