if a girl says "i don't like you the same way you like me", is it possible to win her in the end? i don't really need a "how to" answer, i just need to know if it's possible.
2007-02-26 18:57:36 · 12 answers · asked by that boi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's possible, my best friend and her husband hated each other long before they were married. Totally disliked each other, now are happily married with 3 children... YES
2007-02-26 19:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Blacksabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suppose it is possible. But this guy has a huge crush on me & I told him I just didn't feel the same way & I honestly don't think I ever will. I feel bad that I'm breaking his heart and everything but you must understand that you can't just make someone like you. Eventually you will forget about her & find someone that will like you the same way without having to try so hard to get her attention. Good luck!
2007-02-26 19:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible. But, don't think of "winning" her like she is a prize. My father was turned down by my mother at first. They have been married nearly 30 years now.
2007-02-26 19:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really possible. I had similar situations in my life when I didn't like someone for the first sight and than after time I realized that I even admire the person.
2007-02-26 19:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by monika s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly - I thought my husband was "an old guy" when I met him...first day on the job...wondered where all the cute guys my age were...and was disappointed that all there were was guys 28 an older (I was 18).
but I also had friends in high school who like me (I.E. wanted to check out my bra size up close) but who I just liked (i.e. love to talk to, complain about the jerks I was dating who never treated me right to and hang out with...but not date)...go figure the guys I just liked and not "like liked" where the ones I probably should have dated.
2007-02-26 19:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by deda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is highly possible!
Most couples, who last long, started out not liking each other, sometime even hate each other.
Go get her! slowly.......
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 19:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The women I am happily married to didn't like me when we first met.
2007-02-26 19:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by bengis777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. Time answers everything. Either she will start liking you more ,as time passes or you will get over her.
2007-02-26 19:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it's always possible. if she doesn't like you.. don't annoy her. just basically all i'm saying is don't try too hard. if things don't work out then they don't work out. just be friends for a bit maybe.
2007-02-26 19:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by vitadio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my mom didn't like my dad for who knows why and they are happily married for 40 years. n
2007-02-26 19:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋