I know that everyone hates teenage girls that constantly ask questions about their boy problems...but I really need help! I used to go out with this guy but it only lasted for like 5 days & we broke up. I promised myself I would never give him another chance again but he's been really nice to me lately & everyone has been telling me that he likes me a lot! My friends think that this time is different & he won't mess things up again but idk...He just told me that he needs to talk to me tomorrow at school but he didn't tell me what it was about, but his best friend told me that he's gonna ask me out tomorrow. I like him but idk if i should give him the opportunity to break my heart again. What do u think?
2007-02-26 17:54:12 · 16 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody deserves a second chance because believe it or not people do change. Think about it though letting people in your life you take the risk of them hurtting you in one way or another. Here is part of a song that applies to your situation:
"Cause everybody tried to put some love on the line and everybody feels a broken heart sometme"
Would you regret not taking another chance, I think you will. If your heart does get broken again look at the situation and learn. Take Chances you have one life to live. Live it to the fullest. Besides it might be the best risk you ever took. Something good could come from this. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 18:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I don't know how old you are, or what your situation is...but I'd say to give it some real thought. Like ask yourself if this is really the kind of guy that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with. I know not all dating is "serious" and meant to last forever...but I personally have decided that I don't want to date anyone that I don't want to get to know more in the possibility of one day marrying because it's not worth all the time and heartbreak. Ultimately it's up to you...but I'd just say wait it out and if time goes by and you think you could genuinely have a good relationship with this guy...then go for it! Just don't ever settle for less...you deserve the best! and don't let a guy break your heart...it's not worth it...I always tell myself that no matter how much I may like a guy now...the one that you are meant for is going to be 10 times better!! =) hope that at least kind of helped!
2007-02-27 02:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really broke your heart that bad bad then no way. But if it was a deal then at least hear him out on what he has to say. Then you tell him how you feel and tell him what you expect from him. Be upfront with him and let him know that he did hurt you and that in order for you to give him another chance he is going to have to work on changing or orther wise it will not work.
Now if it was a situation where he was cheating or trying to talk to other girls then I would say no, don't give him another chance. But whatever you do make sure that you communicate with him and let him know that he has to love and respect you 1000% or he can just keep on walking.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 02:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disagree with the others. Start practicing right now! Boys either treat you right or no second chance! If he could have behaved the first time, he should have. Never make yourself into a doormat! Let it be known from the beginning you WILL be treated
respectfully. No exceptions! Stay strong,Sugar. There are so many nice guys out there ,just keep a "No Jerks Need Apply"
sign out from the beginning!
2007-02-27 02:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men should only get one chance to break your heart, because chances are that they will do it again, they never learn, unless you have a reason to believe the other. He is being nice and will do it again if you let him, don't believe him, our colours don't change colours because we have a different angle. Stay where you are happy and enjoy your life, we don't get enough of it, Take care Heather
2007-02-27 02:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your instinct girl. No one else on here knows him or feels about him like you do and if you think he will break your heart then maybe you should just tell him you want to be friends or jus not bother. Just do what you think is right.
2007-02-27 02:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really up to you.
If it was me (and i really loved this guy) i would without a doubt give him a second chance...but only a second chance... not a third.
Good Luck. ash
2007-02-27 02:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very normal at this point in time of your life.
Just don't ask if we think you're pregnant later on.
2007-02-27 02:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. I think he wants to show u a different side of him. good luck
2007-02-27 01:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone deserves a second chance. what if it was the other way around? would he give you a second chance?
2007-02-27 01:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋