Ok i'm doing this for my friend. She is having major problems with her mom, they are always fighting and her mother constantly tells her that shes fat and useless. and to make matters worse my friend has a 6 yr old son in which her mother uses against her and also tells her that she's an unfit mother... she want's my advise but i need help i have no idea what to tell her, I need your guys help.
2007-02-26 17:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by UB6IB9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok i'm doing this for my friend. She is having major problems with her mom, they are always fighting and her mother constantly tells her that shes fat and useless. and to make matters worse my friend has a 6 yr old son in which her mother uses against her and also tells her that she's an unfit mother... she want's my advise but i need help i have no idea what to tell her, I need your guys help. BTW my friend is almost 28
2007-02-26 17:36:17 · update #1
And she lives with her parents
2007-02-26 17:37:55 · update #2
This might be hard for her to do,however she deserves respect from her mom and she shouldn't be talked to like that.Advise her to first try to tell her mom that calling her names is pointless and immature.She needs to talk to her mom and tell her exactly how she feels.Her moms disrespect is doing nothing but hurting her in the long run and that's only hurting her son,because when his moms hurt,he's hurt.She has to stay away from her mom if she can't respect her.They can talk on the phone every now and then.Sometimes we get along better with our parents when we keep our distance and see them every blue moon.
2007-02-26 17:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks alike your friend's mother is having some psychological problem. Instead of fighting back, tell your friend to talk to her mother in a deeper level. Mother usually don't say those things to her child unless she's really depressed and unsatisfied by own self.
2007-02-26 17:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is 'be there' to listen to your friend complain about her mother, and tell her that the best thing she can do is 'ignore' her mother, even if to do that means that she won't see her or take her calls or call her. Not all mothers are good mothers, and some mothers are 'abusive' even to their grown up children.
2007-02-26 17:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your friend? 16? 40? That will make a big difference in the advice you get.
2007-02-26 17:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by introubleguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does she take this from her mom?
just tell her not to talk to her anymore or get away from her mom
if it's because of finacial problems
tell her to put on a smile and deal with it
2007-02-26 17:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to move away from her mom.It really is bad.Is she still depending oh her? or she is glued on to her mom.The word MOVE sounds relly good to me.How much more can she take?
2007-02-26 17:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard confronting parents expecally when ur living with them but your friend needs to step up...to tell her mom she aint a kid no more that shes a mother and shes raisong her kid her way...and if she needs to tell her mom to leave her kid out of it !
2007-02-26 18:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by **PrinCess** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the mother in the woods and super glue her mouth and hands together, then take the kid and beat his *** with a big leather belt.
2007-02-26 17:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋