I'm in my 40's and it's the first time I'm dating two guys at the same time - I believe I'm a pretty lady with a not so bad looking body. I have a loving heart and enjoy laughing and looking at the bright side of life. I have a hard time with dating and have been in 6 relationships my entire life - to me, it's 5 to many.While dating, it seemed like I always ended up fighting men off me. I've always limited myself to being intimate with only one person that I've developed a relationship with. This also applies to my kisses - I feel that "swapping spit" is something I really don't want to do with just anyone and my girl friends tease me that my kissess are expensive. Which leads me to my problem.
2007-02-26 17:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, i don't believe dating two at a time is a very good idea. Men are sensitve, and unfortunetly, they show it through anger.... go for what your heart tells you, but i recommend picking the better one and letting the other one go...
2007-02-26 17:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on be picky, that is the way to find whats best for you.
But frankly, picky girls at the ripe age of 40 know better than to date 2 guys simultaneously. There is no harm in having many friends from both sexes, but, when it comes to dating serial monogamy is best.
2007-02-27 01:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by hunu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont have a problem, you just have standards you aren't willing to compromise. Continue dating the guys until you have a front runner, then let the other one down gently. No need to get physical this early in the game.
2007-02-27 01:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating two at the same time is one two many. No offense.
2007-02-27 01:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that a kiss is the way to tell how he feels about you.But it is up to you on if you do that or not.
If your not ready your not ready.
2007-02-27 01:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. dont do it if you dont want to. are your friends telling you that is a problem with keeping a guy interested? strange. peace
2007-02-27 01:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem to have a really high opinion of yourself.
2007-02-27 01:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy- ask yourself why do you feel this way? ask questions such as what made you this way or why do you have these feelings.
2007-02-27 01:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by The Inmmortal king 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go gurl!
2007-02-27 01:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋