I'm in my 40's and it's the first time I'm dating two guys at the same time - I believe I'm a pretty lady with a not so I have a hard time with dating. It seemed like I always end up fighting men off me and w - had I've always limited myself to being intimate with only one person that I've developed a relationship with. This also applies to my kisses - I feel that "swapping spit" is something I really don't want to do with just anyone and my girl friends tease me that my kissess are expensive. Which leads me to my problem.
The two guys I'm dating are both sweethearts - they don't know each other. When we depart it's always been a quick peck on the cheek, a hug and goodbye - well, one guy decided to give me a full kiss and it was terrible and unexpected, it through me off and I even had to struggle a bit to pull away. Now I don't even want to go out with him anymore because I felt like he forced himself on me but he seemed to get pleasure from it- I don't know - what in the he-- am
2007-02-26 17:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The two guys I'm dating are both sweethearts - they don't know each other. When we depart it's always been a quick peck on the cheek, a hug and goodbye - well, one guy decided to give me a full kiss and it was terrible and unexpected, it through me off and I even had to struggle a bit to pull away. Now I don't even want to go out with him anymore because I felt like he forced himself on me but he seemed to get pleasure from it- I don't know - what in the he-- am
2007-02-26 17:04:04 · update #1
Was it terrible because it was unexpected or was it terrible because he was a bad kisser? Sounds like you want to be the one to call all the shots. relax...when a guy wants to plant a full blown tongue tying, spit swapping kiss on you its usually a sign that they are attracted to you and would like become more intimate. Not saying you have to jump in bed with him, but take it has a compliment and consider his personality and other actions before being so judgmental over a kiss.
2007-02-26 17:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was a bad kisser then run and he wasnt a gentleman to kiss you suddenly
2007-02-27 01:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by I♥agoodhug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've made your decision. You don't want someone that thinks they can force anything on you and enjoy it* Move on* and try to stick to one*Safer that way*~
2007-02-27 01:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not date anyone
2007-02-27 01:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋