2007-02-26 16:53:22 · 30 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay ...............
first of all............you might really be in love if you on here asking advice from total strangers...........
second of all....................you really shouldnt ask advice on love from strangers.......but when you have no other choice................
I CAN UNDERSTAND
third-ley............................if you really loved him, you would be able to talk to him and express your feelings and let him know how you feel and let him know what your concerns are and why.
and fourth--ley(if that is what you are supposed to say)
if HE LOVE(S) YOU...........he WILL change!!!!!
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2007-02-26 17:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by bRoWn eYeD BuTTeRfLy®210~TX 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like love to me too!! Build a man that has everything that you dont want, one that is guarenteed to treat you like crap, be un-faithful, unsuccessful, and in prison at some point... roll it all into one and BINGO! Thats my dream relationship as well.... Move on, you know exactly what everyone is going to say and you just want sympathy. No one thinks this is a good idea so save this answer and 1 year from now either way you will thank be b/c you will either be rid of this guy or stuck with him and it will maybe open your eyes then.
2007-02-27 01:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ray G 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm w/ a smoker & a drinker too....but what makes u think u love this guy? I can't diss him b/c i don't know him, but how does he feel about u and how does he treat u? Is he willing to clean his act up for u? U didn't tell us much about his good qualities....maybe he does have a good side i dunno, just evaluate the way he is around u as a real person, and make ur own decision. Good Luck to u!
2007-02-27 00:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~SHAMROX~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm...ok...why are you in love with this guy??. If you want an opinion, mine would be to let him go and find someone who can offer you so much more and not a life of drinking and gang violence.
2007-02-27 00:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant help the way you feel about someone.. it just comes naturally. Does he feel the same way? Find out how he feels about you... and if he does then just be friends with the guy first and see where that takes you... that way if things dont work out at least you'll still be friends
2007-02-27 00:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's see, you supposedly LOVE this guy. If only you can change his physical habits, his recreational habits and his friends? So what is there to love about him. Everything that makes him the person he is, yu dislike. You don't actually LOVE this guy. You may be infatuated with him, and you may want to be the woman to "FIX" him, but then he won;t be who he was and he won't be happy and neither will you.
Time to move on lady.
2007-02-27 00:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi shelly,
thinking and practicle are two different things. when u know the vices of this guy then donot make hurry. study further his nature, family background etc. only smoking and drinking donot make a man satan. if choice is there u could get a better boy friend. all the best!
2007-02-27 01:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the "Bad Boy syndrome" many women have. They love the bad boys, but when they get treated bad they can't understand why. Don't be thinking you can change him, either accept him as he is, or forget it. Give a nice guy a dam chance.
2007-02-27 00:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by tootall1121 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to be with a guy that is associated with a gang. Do you understand what you are getting yourself into with that?
2007-02-27 00:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What could you love about a loser than that?You have not said one thing positive about this guy, So what does Love mean to you???that is the real question.
2007-02-27 01:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont see him anymore and get a nice guy with a nice job so you can get married and live in your perfect little house for ever.
Lol
Trust me it worked for my mum and now we live in a nice home, they have both got good jobs and beautiful me as a daughter. better to be succesful The go the other way!
2007-02-27 00:58:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋