i was playing yahoo pool which has a small chat bar underneath the pool table in which you can talk to the other player one on one in a chat type forum. during a game i was engaging in usual conversation with the other player, absolutely nothing out of the norm. he/she asked if it was ok to add me to there messenger more than likely enjoying the conversation we were having. i agreed and we added eachother to our messengers. as i did this my wife happened to be with me at the computer. the person i was talking to sent me an instant massage and a picture popped up of a fairly attractive female. my wife at this point became extremely jealous stating that it s not right for me to talk to attractive females on the computer. i am allowed to talk to unattractive females and guys but not any female that is good looking. i on the other hand feel that i should be able to talk to who i please. in my eyes she could talk to anyone, i couldnt care less there is a line that not be crossed. what 2 do
2007-02-26 16:42:27 · 9 answers · asked by james o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
James, lol I think your wife and mine are genetically connected. the same has been going on here, and nothing ever said out of line..I am in my 70's lol she still has the jealous bug and married 40 years and she never had anything to worry about in our marriage, never. I had a public job, known many a person, some I cannot remember but one day shoppijng this young lady, in a public store, recognized me ( I saved her when she was only 3 years old, her dad drowned her, I brought her back to life, which left a connection. Whe I told her I was the person, she came and gave me such a firm hug, a kiss on the cheek, then telling me who she was, I did not recognize her, felt good for what I did, but lol wew, when got home, I felt like drowning myself, such ecplaining good luck
2007-02-26 16:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't see what the big deal is. I mean it is not like you were having "Cyber Sex" with this lady. You said that you were having a conversation with her when you were playing pool I mean point that out to your wife. I don't know I guess that I am like you. My boyfriend I told him to talk to whom ever he wants, but if he is wanting more from them to tell me so that we can do something to try to fix whatever is wrong. He said the same for me and we havent had any problems. I think your wife just is having some jealousy issues. Hopefully you guys can work through it.....Good Luck.
2007-02-27 00:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where you wife is coming at. She jealous cause she thinks if you talk to a women that is attractive and you find each othe interesting then you might go off and leave her. MAybe you should sit down with her and ask her why she got so jealous 4? good luck
2007-02-27 00:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are never gunna win this one with the mrs. The woman you're talking to could have a head like a smacked *** and she'll still have a problem with it.
Either give it up or get sneakier.
2007-02-27 00:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't piss off the wife dude, if you're chating and then meeting on MSM, make sure it's not an attractive female that might
lure your temptations...
2007-02-27 00:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle rvk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married, dumbass. Grow up. Stop playing children's games on the computer, and realize you made a commitment.
2007-02-27 00:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, your married now. That is unacceptable.You wife is uncomfortable and something could happen.
2007-02-27 00:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you all grown up now? talk to whom ever you would like. your wife does trust you, doesnt she?
2007-02-27 00:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOOK IF YOUR NOT CAREFUL ONE THING WILL LEAD to another.
2007-02-27 00:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋