both me and my best friend have been crushing on the most popular boy at school for a while now, but he asked me out a couple days ago. what should i tell him?and would it hurt my friends feelings
2007-02-26 16:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by P!ATDchick19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with him.She'll probably be mad for awhile,but may get over it.
If you don't you'll always wonder.Tell your friend,you don't want to miss this oppurtunity to get to know him,that you love her,but why should you tell him "no"?See what she says,then follow your heart....
2007-02-26 16:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats depends on who you think is more important, the popular guy or your best friend. I say go for it and go out with him. If she is your true friend she will understand why you decided to say yes. He is just a crush to her, not her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend so it should really be no big deal. Good luck with him!!
2007-02-27 00:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the men will come and they will go,but true and I mean true friends last forever. I am 42 and this I know,my best friend has proved to me several times we have been friends since 1984 and there is no better thing than having a true friend in your life some never know the privilege
2007-02-27 00:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by amber e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him yes. u like him and if its really a best friend she would understand. just dont rub ur relationship in her face and over talk about him.
nice going with the popular guy!!!
2007-02-27 00:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by .. .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it. IF she is a good friend she Will tell you the truth on how she feels and if she is a better friend she Will be happy for you and want you to do what you want,i am guessing him.
2007-02-27 00:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by yessca333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you really like him then say yes BUT you shouldn't gloat about yours and his relationship to anyone ESPECIALLY to your best friend but if shes actually a good friend then she will understand then maybe she will find someone new
but just remember NO GLOATING!!!
:)
2007-02-27 00:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to decide right now if hes more important or your friend is more important. It's up to you to decide.
2007-02-27 00:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Yes...and tell your best friend..sorry you know this hurts her feelings...but if it was her..would she not say YES also.~
2007-02-27 00:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go up to him and be yourself and she's your friend right? She will accept you for who you are and if she doesn't she is not your true friend
2007-02-27 00:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Eva P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋