My whole life, the first moment I meet a man, I immediatelly know if I am either very attracted to him (which is mostly strong physical attraction), or NOT AT ALL. It is NOTHING in between. Because of that, I was attracted and had relationships with wrong men either with fatal flaws or with whom I was incompatible. I also met in my life VERY decent,loving, intelligent, educated and theoretically compatible men BUT physical attraction towards them was zero. Few times, I tried very strongly to develop an attraction towards them repeating to myself all the great things in their characters, I gave it time and I was very persistant. But it NEVER WORKED. No, I am NOT attracted to just "bad boys", not at all. I am attracted to photo-model type of guys, and some of them are not the best, but I'm hypnotized by their physical beauty.
Is it possible FOR ME to develop an attraction and love to a man whom I consider great if a physical attraction is NOT THERE at the first place? What should I do?
2007-02-26 16:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by missmiami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
step back for a while and let someone come too you, they will be attractive anyway because those other guys want you. give it time, after all visual looks fade, companionship,compatability and wanting someones company lasts forever. all the best
2007-02-26 16:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called....Wait....besides love is never on time any way. Be careful of guys who think they are God's gift to women.
2007-02-26 16:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so are you saying looks are everything?
2007-02-26 16:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋