im 15 and havent gone out with anyone. I could have gone on dates but didnt feel they were the right person to date. Some people have been making comments on me being gay ( which I am not). what do u think?
2007-02-26 16:33:55 · 33 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I don't think that there is anything wrong with that. You are young and I applause you that you aren't one of those guys that uses girls. A guy that I went to school with didn't have a girlfriend until we went off to college and he is actually getting ready to marry her. It really was true love at first sight. Good Job. I applause you!
2007-02-26 16:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your only 15, why do you need to worry what other think just because your not one of them breaking girls heart. You other priority such as school, than think about being commited in a relationship. You don't have time to balance between school an a relationship. You rather be out with your friends, and enjoy your time as a teenager than have a girl friend in your way, and call you 24/7. Life is simple, live it to your best. The right girl is not in your life right now so your waiting until that times come. Since they call you gay, tell them at least I am don't go out with a different girl every week. They are not true friends, that is just plain mean. They probaably dont' ahve a girl either, or not even serious.
2007-02-26 16:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Azumi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is certainly nothing for you to be ashamed about. If anything applaud yourself on that fact that you are 15 years old and you don't have AIDS or a STD and you don't have anyone calling you daddy. Some of those same name-calling people are gay themselves so don't worry about their taunts. The most important thing in your life now should be your education. Early daters usually go on to regret having dated so early in life. What's the rush, anyway? Besides, you already have a best girl. Your mother!
2007-02-26 16:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellll,,,I tried to date girls at 15 too, and didn't feel right either,
However I had male friends that I had no idea what was coming
and we just ended up doing something sexual and I was so
excited, but denied it and pretended to find the right girl for me,
You might not be ready yet, depends, do you have any sexual feelings, fantasies? When you masterbate, what is your fantasy? But the more girls you try stuff with, the more confidance you'll have, so go on,,, have some fun,,,
2007-02-26 16:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle rvk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say you should be ashamed. 15year old is even a little young for today's standards.
Now of course if you were older.. things would be a bit different and people might be poking at you more.
I met in real life many years ago two 40 year old ladies who were both virgins and they were a little ashamed .. and sad. One was a creep, the other just isolated.
I would suggest not letting this happen to you.
2007-02-26 16:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fine bro, no need to sweat it. I've known guys to wait until college to even consider dating, so you've already started on that. Just keep dating, and you'll meet someone you like. It may be odd that you've dated and haven't kept going out with a couple of these girls, but to each his own, if you don't feel comfortable satring something up if you feel there just might not be something there, than thats your business and no one can tell you otherwise.
2007-02-26 16:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Zeppboy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Thats good that you want to date the right person. People begin dating at different times. Just date someone when you are ready and you know she's the one you wanna date.
2007-02-26 16:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and I've never been on a date. I'm not ashamed in the least. One guy who asked me out (he was really stupid, I mean really really stupid) told all his friends that I said no because I'm a lesbian (which I'm not) Some people are stupid (like he was) It sucks that the smart ones with higher standards (like the two of us) have to deal with their taunting.
No don't be ashamed of it. The right girl will come along and when she does your relationship will be special.
2007-02-26 16:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to be ashamed of you are just to young to go on a date wait for another 4years and you will learn more in life at present don't worry about peoples comment as people are made like that just don't think what they say as you live for yourself and not for others and so far as i am concerned it is your right decision of not going on a date right now and regarding having a girl friend you can be friendly with girls whom you like and girl who likes you .
2007-02-26 16:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by %0oi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 16 and i've never had a bf. you should not be ashamed.
never go on a date with someone if you feel they are not the right person to do it with. i am glad you didn't date them just because you want a gf. don't just settle for any girl, only go out with the ones you want to.
2007-02-26 17:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋