ok there is this girl that i like, we talk to each other all of the time, (i'm not really ready to ask her out; super shy) we kind of run out of things to talk about. Any advice???? serious answers please, and don't tell me to ask her out.
2007-02-26 16:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by john 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this sounds like the same type of problems i have everytime i get talking to a girl. i get to shy to ask her out and then things sorta fade away, do not let this happen! if you just keep talking to her as a friend, she will see you as a friend and nothing more will ever come.
what i do now, is ask her what shes doing during the week/end so i know when shes busy and whatnot, then on a day shes not busy during the day ill text her or something and say "i could use some fun tonight, wanna do something" and then go from there.
if your really too shy to ask her out, and want to feel more confident with your relationship with her, you could just mention to her sometime on aim/msn/whatever that you really like her, and see what she says, if she says she really likes you too (and doesnt use the word "friend") that prolly means she is into you too, so you shouldnt feel shy to ask her out, because its what you both want!
goodluck dude
2007-02-26 16:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by tupersrooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u run out of things to talk about, then try to occupy the silence with something else, playing video games, sports, any events that involves a whole lot of activities and little talking. She seems shy too.
2007-02-26 16:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys talk a lot..but your super shy?(wait im supposed 2 be answering nt askin..my bad) ok...when you guys run outta things 2 talk i guess...if you don't want to ask her out then tel her that..say that i really like you and im to shy to ask you out...and if she respects you..which she probably does..then she wouldnt laugh at you she would take it and return it..thats all im gunna say.
2007-02-26 16:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what she likes...ask for her number after you think she considers you as a friend...be confindent when you do the things you do.....lol..umm just ask her to go have some coffee or go to the movies...
trial and error..part of being a guy....it gets easier when you get older and its not as hard to build up balls just to get a girls number
2007-02-26 16:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok budy try sending her a letter telling her how you feel and see what she replys back try to write her some poetry or drawings whatever you good at!
2007-02-26 16:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Aly Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her one day wit sumthing that will suprise her..tell her how beautiful her eyess are..or jus bring up sum of the things u guys like to do..u'll never kno u guys could like the same thing ya kno..& that should keep ya goin..well hopefully it does..it could led to more convo s that instrest u both.. so who knos
2007-02-26 16:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask what she likes to do, fav movies, what she's doing on the weekend.
2007-02-26 16:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by cmitchelle71@yahoo.com.au 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude , why are you being shy ? its out of season!
just ask her many riddles and suddenly prpose her !
actually ,my current bf did this and i liked it : )
2007-02-26 16:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.pretty : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask do you have a boy friend?
2007-02-26 16:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋