I was dating this guy for about three months. He told me he was willing to take things slow. Now, he is acting weird and just accused me of seeing someone else...cause i pushed him away while he tried to kiss me the other night. I left his house in a huff and went home at 2am. The next night my neighbor friend came over and i told him everthing. We have known each-other for some time and are both single. To shorten this up...we had %^$
Now, the accusation that boyfriend accused is now true. I still have the key to his place and have no nerve to call or stop by. I'm thinking of mailing his key to him and he lives a couple of streets over. I'm mad at myself for making his assumptions true. Now...i don't want to date either of them. I'm i a mean person?
2007-02-26 16:21:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, just confused and you made a mistake. It happens. Mail the key and get over him--he sounds sort of controlling, I mean, why did he get accusatory all of a sudden? Either way, you're probably not meant to be with him, and three months is plenty of time to figure that out.
I think the person you should focus on is the friend. If you still want to be friends, you'll have to deal with what happened.
Hope this helps!
2007-02-26 16:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Violet777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's just recap here. Your BOYFRIEND tried to kiss you and you pushed him away. Then your FRIEND comes over and you have sex. Something is very wrong with this picture!
Seems like you must not have liked this BOYFRIEND very much. Perhaps his feelings were because you were keeping him at a distance while pretending to be his girlfriend?
It is not that you are a mean person, but you were using him to pass the time while you waited for someone else to come along.
As a young adult, it is time to faced the music. March right over to his place and tell him everything. Including that you never really had feelings for him in the first place! Then let him decide whether or not he wishes to speak to you ever again.
Then go to your FRIEND and tell him what you did and who all you hurt.
Then maybe take some time to yourself and figure out what exactly you want in your life.
2007-02-27 00:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't live your life for someone else. By the way, if someone accuses you of cheating it's usually because they are doing it.
2007-02-27 00:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not mean. you just let your boyfriend ditate what you do. he said your cheating and what did you do. exactally what he said. you need to accept that what you did was stupid. which doesnt make you a mean person.
2007-02-27 00:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋