she is new at school and we talk once. I started the conversation saying its cold outside when she was about to go outside and get a snack out of the snack machine... and i stayed inside by myself and she comes back in and starts to talk to me... We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. Maybe she really didn't. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. I haven't went to school for 4 days, but I went today and we both made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds, but her friend was right by the door when i walk in the class... so idk... than as we went on break she was waiting right by the door and i think she was looking at me to see if i would talk to her... but i didnt i walk right past her... i heard her outside yelling on the phone probably a family member... i was inside... i could hear her yelling cause i was right by the outside door... than she came inside cause it was cold outside... she talk on the phone across from me for about 2-3 minutes... than she went right back outside and talk... when she was done talking on the phone... she came inside with her head down... than she look up and look at me in a moody way... than she look back down really quick...she didnt give me a mean look... but she gave me a look like she was kinda mad or upset... we are both shy...
2007-02-26 16:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was confusing....
My first impression is that she's not shy, she's interested in you. The "loser" comment was to get a reaction out of you, to judge your interest in her., and hey...why your at it, give her a boost to her ego.
The talking to the other guy outside, in plain view is to gauge your reaction also, to see if your watching her, or to see if your somewhat interested in her.
The sad looks, the head bowed down, the apologizing for "bothering you", is also to gauge your reaction. She's interested in you...even with her ignoring you.
Bottom line is, she isn't mature enough for a relationship (you didn't say Highschool, or college age, btw) she's playing stupid mind games with you....
And maybe, just maybe...if your right about the shyness, which I don't feel she's shy, maybe she thinks your too hot for her, therefore playing herself down....but I highly doubt it.
2007-02-26 16:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that kinda answers the question, if your both shy, it seems like she may like you but if you and her are shy maybe you should make the first move or get a friend of yours to ask her, maybe someone who's a girl to ask her if she likes you, you'll never know for sure unless you ask.
Good Luck :)
2007-02-26 16:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are u? second just because someone entertains u doesn't mean their inter rested, maybe she just felt like talking and u were the only one who would listen, the only way u will know is if u try again to talk to her and feel her vibes. your heart will tell u, but don't be fooled some people are very good at being cordial. sorry to come off so rude but don't wast your time on the unavailable.
2007-02-26 16:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by j_nasty_500 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright, you should probably ask her, and talk to her, this reminds me of my ex...
God damnit so many relations to my ex in these questions...
If she's "ignoring" you she might just be afraid, try talking to her, catch her attention, if you have to, be a bit assertive, and ask "what's wrong" or "why are you ignoring me". Spend a lot of time with her, ask her to the movies or something, if you have to, say you really just want to see her more or perhaps do something together.
2007-02-26 16:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to her about music, classes, whatever. If she continues to ignore you or seems to want to end the conversation as soon as possible everytime you try to talk to her, move on. sounds like it would be her loss.
2007-02-26 16:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess i gess u are shy, remmber all people start out as friends and if one friend shows they care then thats a start gets things talking, just maybe its her troubles at her home or her past but to be a good friend is to care allways and go from there as in anything i can do to help nice friend let her see that you are nice that you care then go from there.
2007-02-26 16:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD, HOW OLD ARE YOU LIKE 12? SHE WAS NEW AND TALKED TO YOU PROBALY JUST TO FEEL CONNECTED TO SOMEONE THERE, GET OVER YOURSELF SHE'S NOT INTO YOU. YOUR THE LOSER FOR THINKIN A SIMPLE CONVERSATION MINT YOU WERE DISTINED TO BE R YOU CRAZY? MAYBE SHE FELT SORRY FOR YOU. AND THE LOSER COMMENT -R U SURE THAT WASN'T ONE OF THE VOICES IN YOUR HEAD????????????
2007-02-26 16:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by TEE TEE 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that girl is wierd men thats all i can say about this
2007-02-26 16:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by carlitos310 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋