I'm a 39 yr old single guy who has been alone for over 2 years. Before that I was in a 7 year relationship which produces the best thing ever to happen to me and that was my Daughter. So I have and obstical, alot of the women that I meet don't want to be bothered with a guy that has a child. And that is the thing my daughter comes first and always will, so where can I find someone who will be willing to share me with my daughter. I work full time and go to school full time to step up in my career in the medical field. Does anybody have a solution for me.
2007-02-26 16:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by jcmc3056 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried single parent networks and even internet dating and everrything is fine until I can't do something because I have my daughter and then it becomes a problem cause I pick them over her.
2007-02-26 16:14:10 · update #1
why cant i met guys like you. lol. what a wonderful man and father you must be. you have one lucky daughter. for me, i don't have a problem with men who have kids. I have dated men who have kids and i always have insited that the kids always come first. maybe you can join a group of single parents. you might be able to met a lady who knows where you are coming from. you said that some women want you to pick them over her. well than that's tough **** for them. maybe you should just continue your work,school and being with her and just not look right now. the best things in life happen when you don't expect them :)
2007-02-26 16:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not alot of women, just the women you have either been around or are going for. There are plenty, and I do mean plenty of women who either can accept a child in a relationship, or are in a similar situation. Have you tried dating online. Usually you can search for women online that don't mind you having children. Or they have children themselves. I know that with school and a daughter, time can be sparse, but you make time for things that are important to you. And trust me, there are women out there that will work around your situation to have a relationship with you. You just have to look.
2007-02-26 16:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Chris H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a church that has an active singles group. Parents Without Partners is an organization for single parents. See if there is a group in your area. Tell your friends that you are looking or a serious relationship. They may know someone who is perfect for you. Take ballroom dance or cooking lessons. You will be surrounded by interested women.
2007-02-26 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude shes out there mate.... of course your daughter should come first its only natural. The woman that your looking for might actually alot closer then you think.... Just go with the flow cause I bet she might be right under your nose and you dont realise it :D
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 16:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiii first theres lot of people like you out there looking just be you a good friend to all let them see the real you, fun is to meet nice people and give your sleft every chance to meet the same as your looking for friends and love can happen even when ones not seeing it be happpy injoy life let friends meet you.
2007-02-26 16:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the "love me, love my daughter"scenario. Have you tried dating anyone with kids? Maybe you'd have some more common ground
2007-02-26 16:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking and take advantage of every opportunity that comes along.
2007-02-26 16:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Yahoo Personals or me.
2007-02-26 16:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should date women that have kids they know what it is like to have to have children of their own and understand your kids come first,
2007-02-26 16:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋