theres this girl. we met a few weeks back. i think she is just beautiful and as ive gotten to know her, i really like her personality as well. anyway, we've hung out a few times and i cant get this girl out of my head. i found out that she "wants me so bad", yet she doesn't want a relationship. so i guess all she wants is a hookup. it all started when i kissed her the 2nd time we hung out. im confused though, im always the one that calls her and im always the one that finds stuff for us to do. however, rarely can she ever do anything. she always has an excuse. now, maybe she is legitimately busy but ive never met someone so busy. i mean i think its rediculous. im normally very good at reading people and i think she just doesnt like me. im confused cause she says she does "want me" but he actions dont point to the same conclusion. mayb im just whipped or thinkin about it too much. any and all help is much appreciated.
2007-02-26 15:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be going through something she's not telling you about. If you usually ready people well, and she's an enigma, chances are she isn't reading herself well. She could be confused too. You have to decide just how much you want to get involved in what could be a situation more complex that it seems.
2007-02-26 16:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by holacarinados 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's the kind of girl that thinks the guy should make the first move and she's waiting for that! One little move and maybe she'll take over! If you want more than just casual sex, you won't really know until you've taken a test drive, so jump in the driver's seat and see what happens! Good Luck !
2007-02-27 00:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go for the chase until or after morals start to come into play.
Once you give yourself into pure lust woman could careless and Will leave you for dead. Once they find out you dont care another one shows up. Go figure supply and demand. You would think; "i want cake and eat it too" yet it really hast to do with if you are confident and able to care for life. Be able to stand for something or fall for anything. What to make of all those years. Give them an inch and they will take a mile. Important what is good for the goose is good for the gander.
2007-02-27 00:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she wants to start off slow, may be she likes the chase, may be she likes the guy making all the plans. Sometimes we ladies like it when the guys keeps comg after us. U may have to talk with her about the fact that ur confused, ask her what is it that she really wants. Tell her that u really like her and would like it to turn into a nice relationship u can't really do that until u know what she's wants.
Good Luck
2007-02-27 00:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she told you she wants you so bad or is that hearsay. How much have you actually spoken to this girl. Have you told her how you feel about her? Have you asked her if she just want to screw around or does she have genuine feelings for you, the same as you have for her? Take her for a long walk, hold her hands and just talk to her in a quiet way and listen to what she says to you.
2007-02-27 00:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your trying to read into it too much. why not just comeout and she where she is comming from or how she feels about the 2 of you's. take things one step at a time. it will all work out in the end.....
2007-02-27 00:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1....Slow yourself down...Maybe she just wants to be friends for a while to get to know you. Your statements about "she wants me" and " A hookup" are really TOO fast. obviously you are young enough, but seem smart enough, to avoid all sexual thoughts right now. I shouldn't tell you this, but I've been in your position ( several years ago I admit) so again, Try to be a friend, get to know the lady, let her get to know you....then jump her bones, just kidding.........If its meant to be, it will....
2007-02-27 00:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Elo Fudpucker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she is doing is playing you.she only want to do things when
it suit her. stop calling her if she want to get together time for her
to make the move. and then see what happen. sound like you
need to move on.
2007-02-27 00:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stop making all the effort. if she really likes you and wants to know you, she will make it clear to you. I suggest you let her call you next and let her be the one to ask you out next, if/when she's ready.
2007-02-27 00:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should honestly tell her and ask her what you can do to make her more cheerful. Trust me I'm a girl i know how other women think because im one of them.duh... (lol)
2007-02-27 00:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Eva P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋