If you met the girl of your dreams, would you want to wait and pursue something at the right time?

Question

OKAY, let's say your a dude in your 20's, you've never had any "girl experience" in your life. You've been in love with your best friend for two years & recently expressed how she feels the same for you. She's almost everything you want in a girl - she's herself, confident in her own sexy way, and she's a good girl BUT your life is stressed out right now (school, work, bills, immaturity) - What would you do? Do you want to wait until there's a more perfect time? Do you want something "real and serious" with her but now's not the right time? Would you want to savor your friendship as much as you can now so you can have a better chance with her in the future at a better time?

Answer 1

I think he would want to wait. Getting a girlfriend/boyfriend would just add more stress to your plate. If you have bills, immaturity, school, and work to deal with, the stress is going to pile and overwhelm the poor guy. He should wait. If he truly believes he has found his dream girl, he will keep the friendship with her, and make it even stronger, in hopes that she will still be there once he is ready an able to maintain/support a girlfriend and future wife (if this is the dreamgirl). There is really no way of telling if he will have a better chance with her in the future considering he keeps the friendship, because within that timeframe, the girl could've found somebody else. Some people just don't like to wait, and others don't like to rush.

Answer 2

I met my gf of almost 3 yrs on a cruise in Alaska. She lives in NC and I live in south FL, so we rarely see each other. I'm not sure what made me do it, but we were on the cruise ship going to a movie with the "teen group" and we ended up next to each other, and at some point I started to move closer to her...we didn't talk, we just kissed. It just took off from there and continued to build after we went home, and here we are almost 3 yrs later. I don't know where I would be today if I hadn't gone for it when I had the chance. It's a good thing I did because a couple of the other guys had their eyes on her, but I guess I got there first...alls well that ends well. I think you should go for it now before she gets snatched up by another guy, then where would you be? Even more stressed out and even depressed? You can do it!

Answer 3

School, work, bills, and immaturity can be a lot to handle, especially when you are in your 20's with no girl experience (I didn't mean that mean), but you have to remember that if you wait to long it may be to late and you will never get your chance with the girl of your dreams. I say make your move before it is to late and hope for the best. Good luck!

Answer 4

no, no longer unavoidably. relies upon on no rely while you're speaking approximately pleasing mum and dad' needs or one's own ambition. i had an ambition of turning right into a linguist, a instructor, a diplomat, or an electric engineer. i grow to be discouraged. and that i grow to be a woman. so i did what i didnt desire to, yet I haven't any regrets. in basic terms wish i ought to do it otherwise. i assume in our community as a boy, or destiny guy of the relatives, you should weigh the possibilities of earning a great residing and supply on your destiny relatives and your desires. yet in modern-day existence type, females additionally are inspired to pursue the course that ends up in a cushty residing, which isn't in basic terms getting married and wait to be fed. mum and dad in recent times do no longer in basic terms desire to be certain the sons efficient, yet additionally the daughters :)

Answer 5

why would you want to wait.just because life isn't going the way you want it too dosn't mean you can have that relationship. word of advice no matter how long you wait life dosn't get easer. so i would go for it .....

Answer 6

Proceed slowly, but do proceed. Otherwise she may think you don't really like her.