What is the best approach to meet women in bars/clubs???

Question

While I would much rather meet someone with whom to begin an actual relationship, the fact that, despite my best attempts, I have been unable to attract the romantic interests of a girl in over three years has convinced me that it is illogical for people like myself to hope for such a thing.

Based on this observation, I have recently begun attempting to meet women in bars/clubs but have had no better luck there.

Other guys seem to be able to easily approach women in these establishments, introduce himself, and the girl immediately lights up and begins socializing with him.

On the other hand, when I walk up to girls in these establishments, say 'hi' and ask them how their doing, they usually appear to be either annoyed that I dared to talk to them or just uninterested.

I was wondering if any of you might have any advice on how to approach and talk to women in bars.

The more specifics you could provide, the better.

I'd appreciate it if only individuals offering legitimate answers responded to this inquiry. I posted it earlier and only received answers from sarcastic individuals.

Also, if any information about me would help in this assessment, I’m 23 years old (24 in a month), Caucasian, 6’3, average build, clean shaven, well groomed, and suffer several physical defects including a genetic hearing impairment which requires that I wear hearing aids.

I always try to dress well when going to one of these clubs and, while my emotions don’t automatically show on my face, I always put on a pleasant deposition.

The only response thus far is nothing more then an advertisement for a commercial dating web site that is little more then a scam.

I'm not going to select it as a 'best answer and would appreciate it if anyone who rates this post select 'no best answer' if no-one else posts.

Answer 1

Find a woman that is sitting at the bar by herself that has a seat beside her. Walk up and ask if the seat is taken and if she says no ask if she minds if you sit there. When sitting introduce yourself and start small conversation to see if she is interested in talking to you. If she is interested ask to buy her a drink. That will get the ball rolling. But first and foremost always remember to be yourself.

As for you having things wrong with you a good woman will overlook those and see that it is what is inside that counts. Those women that you approaching are not willing to look past your faults which is the reason they never find Mr. Right and will settle for Mr. Right Now, and the next night be out looking for him again.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Well sounds like ur doing the normal thing by saying hi and asking her how she's doing. Keep doing that but smile and be very friendly and have a sense of humor once u have her attention. Don't be a creep, jerk or annoying. Make sure that when ur talking with her ur smiling and kind.

Number one thing don't ALWAYS expect that ur gonna go home with a girl( that s building ur self up for a let down) just go enjoy urself and know that ur gonna met a girl. Sometimes u have to go thru some let downs. But she's out there looking for u, u just have to find each other. =-)

Good Luck Sweetie

Answer 3

You should only approach someone who you have already made eye contact with. Women don't go out just to be hit on. It is offensive to invade someone's personal space by just going up to them.
Some clubs are friendlier than others. Places that have live music tend to attract a more relaxed, friendlier crowd.
The best place to meet someone is a place that you feel comfortable, a place that reflects your interests.
Don't come on too strong. Asking someone if they know what time it is or if they know the name of the band playing is a good start. If she is friendly, then continue the conversation. Don't start hitting on her until after she has touched your arm.
Girls in bars touch your arm if they are interested in you as more than a few free drinks.

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Answer 5

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Answer 6

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