how do you have sex for the first time?

Question

i really want to be prepared so when i do have sex do it right please help

Answer 1

That's something you should worry about when it gets close to your wedding day.


I just have to say this too...

If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.

Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.

I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend of a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...

Answer 2

OK to make sure i don't get blamed for young sex or sex out of wedlock or unprotected sex... sex is something that is better the longer you wait, and if the unexpected happens it is better to be married and able to take care of whatever comes together, and of course use a condom to protect yourself. There i think i am covered now. As to the actual act, it is better to be with someone you truly know intimately and share a very special bond with. I think the best thing about when i make love to my girlfriend ( yes i know i am a hypocrite, get over it) is that i know her heart and i can read her face and body reactions to know if i am doing everything right. Unfortunately buddy that generally takes alot of time to get to that level of love trust and intimacy. The only other thing i can tell you is if it is her first time, be gentle and take your lead from her... it will be a slightly painful thing for her for the first few times at least.

Answer 3

First things first. If you can not enter a pharmacy and walk up to the counter and ask the person at the counter where the condoms are, then you are not ready.

I am very serious. If you are embarassed in anyway, then you do not have enough maturity to be having sex.

Take your time, there is no rush. There is no race and no prize for finishing first (take that statement as you wish!).

Answer 4

My friend, sex just happens. It's not planned. You can just say, hey honey, how about sex tommorow evening? No. By the way, your first time may not go well. The best position to do is missionary for the first time. But it's all up to you two. Let everything flow; don't plan it. Good Luck!

Answer 5

its a learned experience, different for everyone.....if you are going to do it, make sure he has protection on....dont rush into it, wait until you feel you are ready to go through with it...having sex for the first time will eventually happen for you, but there is no exact answer to say how to do it right.... you just will have to know when you are ready to do it and then let it happen.....

Answer 6

LOL. Then you seriously aren't ready or prepared if you're asking this question. Just wait.

Answer 7

don't rush into it cause when I did it the first time I was done in like 5 mins

Answer 8

well first - make sure you're ready physically, emotionally, and mentally because once you do it you can't have it back - remember, sex changes everything -good luck!

PS: Kelly is RIGHT ON!

Answer 9

The first time I had sex I was scared.....It was dark and I was all alone.

Answer 10

I had it in the stairs of my high school. Then I got pregnant. Make sure you have condoms and know how to use them.