2007-02-26 15:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by Dyanne A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first ask why did he do it. was it a friendly hug? and if it was than no need to get upset. don't jump to conclusions before knowing the facts.
2007-02-26 15:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think any girl would like to see his boyfriend hugging another girl. Too bad you didn't get to see how he hugged her. However, you need to have trust in your relationship- if your boyfriend sees that you don't trust him that much, he will lose interest in you. Don't put a leash on him, don't make it seem like you don't want him hugging, talking, or hanging out with another girl. Just be OK with it. If he goes as far to kiss a girl, or takes her out (just him and her- almost like a date) , then and only then, is when you should do something (like break up).
2007-02-26 23:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl wans to hear that her mate was hugging another girl. But it couldbe for a simple reason, he may have been just being nice to her. Have u ask why he was hugging this other girl? I may not like it unless it was a very simple innocent reason why he hugged her.
If u ask and he tells u a reason u don't like then u may want to state to him that it bothers u that he hugs other girls and if he cares about u and ur feelings then he will not do it again.
2007-02-26 23:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who the girl is. If she is his sister, no problem. If she is a love interest, then I'd be very upset. At this point I would need clarity as to what our relationship was all about. Make it clear that his behavior is unnacceptable to you. Ask him how he would feel if you were hugging another man. Surely fair exchange is no robbery. But, this is your relationship and you set the boundaries. If you have a problem with it, let him know. If he does not respect your feelings, kick him to the curb.
2007-02-26 23:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging is all right. Maybe the girl is an old friend or she feels sad & needs comforting. No big deal. it's not like he's kissing her passionately! Then that's a different story altogether.
2007-02-27 00:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a jealousy thing you have isn't it? If it is, then it's totally normal. Don't overreact. I mean guys need their space as well as we girls do. Just be more understanding and if you still don't feel comfortable with him hugging another girl, then talk to him about it. Communication is key in a relationship hun. :)
2007-02-26 23:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all was it a regular hug or a totally touchy feely hug?
if it was regular who cares i mean ppl can hug each other its not a crim
but if it was a touchy feely hug i would ask your boyfreind about it and but try not gang up on him
2007-02-26 23:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by ginagab@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its not his relative ask him who she is and why he was hugging her....ask him if it would be okay for you to hug another guy(he will hopefully say no)..then ask why did he feel it was okay for him to do it..then tell him it hurts you and if you keep getting hurt you will not be in the relationship for much longer.
2007-02-26 23:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by squee squee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, he mite just be saying bye to her becuz shes moving or somthing... besides, a hug means not alot in relationshipss...... somtimes :-)
2007-02-26 23:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and say hey babe, who is your friend?
2007-02-26 23:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by ccwife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋