ok example 3 kids by 3 dads sciocal services come in and take 3 kids and seperate them sending each child to live with there dads even though there dads live in different states the childeren dont get to visit each other they are the ages of 8-6-2 the sciocal services even had a offer to leave the childeren together at the home where they left the 2 year old but they refused . help me understand why they would seperate these childeren when these childeren need each other the most the 6 year olds dad dident even pay child support and had to demand the 2 dna test be done before he would except him at 6 years old is this crazy what is the reason they couldent let the grandmother keep them that wanted them together i feel the childeren is been punished by our sciocial service department , no the childeren was not abused or beaten they mother just needed guidence and parenting classes to help her adjust her cleanlyness,
2007-02-26 15:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by family fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't understand social services myself. My family has a similar problem. I don't understand why they wouldn't let the grandmother have them either. Just keep praying that the mother will get her problems straightened out and get her children back. Keep faith in God and turn the situation over to him. He will help you and your family with this situation.
2007-02-26 16:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation the fathers rights of each child over rides keeping the children together.
Sad but true. Also if they had given the kids to grandma she may have then qualified for assistance which they do not have to pay if they are with their dads.
Social Services is in sad shape but it doesn't look like any changes are coming.
Best thing for grandma to do is stay on the dads good side and maybe the kids can visit for the summer and hopefully have some time together.
Good Luck
2007-02-26 23:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will have the oppertunity to get the kids back if she corrects the problem.As far as goverment gose they take kids from some parents for the silly things.I had 2 cousins who were phiscal,mental,and sexually abusied for 3yrs.Me and my family reported it the whole time.Both kids got pulled but it was way to late!!!!!The little girl is now 13 yrs old and will never be able to live alone.The boy is now10 and has done sexually abused 2 kids.They don't listen and treat each case like it involevs people not animals or objects.One law apples to everyone but only certin ones they make obey it.
2007-02-27 00:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by trenia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem with getting government involved with family law of any kind. They are heavy handed thugs that claim to be looking out for the kids best interests when all they really want is to keep the money and kids changing hands so they can take their cut.
2007-02-26 23:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of do think it is wrong.... But you said that the mom was not Sanitary..I think they took them away and Put them in a dif. house cuzz they all have dif dads. and also an obvious answer is this world is F*c*E*d up.... so yeah thats why i think it is!
2007-02-27 00:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is wrong. If me and my sister had been seperated when my mother ran off (she tried to take my sister with her) I'd have killed myself by now.
2007-02-26 23:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by nastysickndirty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋