Later, I found out that she was a virgin. I felt bad about it, because after 7 months of dating, we broke up. That was many years ago. We are now married to different spouses, but I want to make things straight, what do I do.???
2007-02-26 15:33:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dood hahahahhahaha
GET. OVER. IT.
its not like shes calling you and saying how u ruined her life
a lot of girls have sex
big dealio
:P
just forget it
if she asks for an apology then give her one
but seriously SHE wanted it
NOT you
and i respect you for that
:)
2007-02-26 15:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by stranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened years ago. There's a good chance your ex girlfriend has gotten over it. You are married to someone else, and you really need to simply move on. If your girlfriend ASKED you to have sex with her, then you didn't do anything wrong. You didn't do anything that she didn't want. You both acted the way you wanted because you wanted to have sex. Because the relationship ended doesn't mean you need to go back to her and apologize for something that happened years ago. If you believe she is hurting from what happened, talk to her about it. If you happen to know how to get in contact with her, call her and ask her out for coffee or something little like that and just tell her straight out that something is bothering you from the past. Explain to her what you just said. Even though it's not really something that you should feel bad about, you may feel better if you get your feelings off your chest. Also, talk to your wife about it. She will be able to help you. You should be honest with your spouse about what is bothering you.
Amanda
2007-02-26 23:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does that have to do with you? You said, "My girl friend asked me to have sex with her." She asked, you delivered. Did you make some kind of promise to her or something? That changes the story. No I wouldn't apologize even so. You'll just create another dynamic between you. You should focus more on your wife than her, don't you think?
2007-02-26 23:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by The Ninth Cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is there to make straight? OK, so it wasn't the best idea you ever had, but she did ask to do it. And it was years ago and you are now both married...I would let this sleeping dog stay asleep.
2007-02-26 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by HoustonTexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. You don't want to stir up old feelings that may cause worse problems down the road with your marrage and hers. Let it be and move on cause if you don't it could get ugly.
2007-02-26 23:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by jcmc3056 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you even should feel bad about it... she asked you to... it was both of your decisions to have sex. Sure it may have caused pain later, but it was a mutual decision and I hope both of you grew because of it.
2007-02-26 23:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by ergoproxy81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she's over it by now....if you're already ready to have affairs and keep in touch with old gf's, then you are still a dog. Try being true to a woman, it is really great for the soul.........
2007-02-26 23:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to apologize. You didn't make anybody do anything. You don't know how many guys she was with for a fact.
2007-02-26 23:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one feeling guilty,
Taking virginity is not a life long commitment, especially if she wanted you to.
2007-02-26 23:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's really not anything you can do, and as she asked you I'm not sure why you're feeling guilty about it.
Not that I'm advocating sex before marriage, but it happens far more often than not.
2007-02-26 23:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mnementh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋