I spent the better part of last week with my girlfriend. While this was great, I'm having some serious concerns about her. I continue to have issues with her not opening up to me about her feelings on things, even the littlest things in life, like taking a right of left at a stop sign. I have decided to not talk to her a while, hoping that space/distance will give me perspective. She has dialed my number once yesterday and twice today. It kills me not to answer it, but I feel I shouldn't. I don't really know why I'm doing this.... I think I'd like to use it to confront her on things that I feel are serious to our relationship going forward. This also may be a stupid/disasterous backfire. She's one of the nicer ppl in the world, but almost too nice. We've been going for 7 months now. How do I get her to open up to me or is time/space thing something good?
2007-02-26 15:32:48 · 3 answers · asked by extr3333mely_handsome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't man. Stop being a priss. It's the woman's job to open up and worry about the relationship, not yours. You're there just to be there with her, not to make her do things or change her. Work on yourself, and she'll follow through. Trust me, I've seen it happen in my own relationship. The man takes the lead and the woman follows, if she trusts him. No amount of pushing or coercion is gonna get her to WANT to change for you. I've been down that road too.
2007-02-26 15:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her about how u feel and u should just pick up her phone calls because otherwise she's thinking you're cheating on her or ignoring her for some other reason.
2007-02-26 16:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should answer the phone and talk you should ask me I'm a girl.But if you talk to much you will have a fight like i had when i was in first grade.
2007-02-26 15:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by ashley a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋