my bf told me he is sending me an electronic item which i know i wont use, kind of musicplayer...i know he will feel bad if i tell him, wat shud i do, shud i just accept it, or shud i tell him that i wont use it...i know he will feel bad...wat shud i do????
2007-02-26 15:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by ria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me earlier wat i want...i said give me anything of your choice....(ours is a long distance relationship)
2007-02-26 15:33:44 · update #1
You told him to get you anything he wanted. So he picked something you wouldn't have thought of. IT wouldn't hurt you to try to use it a few times. You might like it. If not, you should not tell him. Just don't leave it all up to him to pick for you anymore. You could give him suggestions as to the things you like.
2007-02-26 15:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have given him an honest answer when he asked you what you wanted. You accept the gift with as much grace as you are able to scrape up and then give it a try at least once. If you still don't like it then just put it away. I hope your boyfriend gets smart soon and dumps you because you are a rotten girlfriend
2007-02-26 23:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him really nicely, and tactfuly, that you really don't have much use for what he's getting you, and it would be better if he saved his money and gave you something more meaningful like sending you flowers or writing you a long letter, or promising to call you more often or whatever. Keep on going with your relationship! I was in one for 2 years, we lived in different continents, now he moved in with me and we're getting married this year! good luck!
2007-02-26 23:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to reply to this is just be plain out honest.. ( you have plenty of electronics .. mp3 laying around already) so sending you another one is just needless and a waste of money. Ask him flirtatiously to burn you a mixed cd of your favorite songs or something..
2007-02-26 23:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by augustina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him tat u don't lik cause it would b worst for him to waste the money on someting tatz not worth it...nd make up an excuss lik u have 1 but tat'll be bad for lyin..mayb just being straight forward with him is best but don't use harsh words...nd if he really love u he will understand
2007-02-26 23:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Yuzuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's sending it with some special music in it for you to listen to. if my ld guy sent me anything it would be soo precious.
but, if you dont want him to waste money on something you wont use....you should tell him immediately. for him maybe the music player is difficult to get anyway. peace
2007-02-26 23:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were yoo i would just accept the gift even if you don't like it cause that's what being in a relationship is like it's the thought that counts would you wrather get somthing that you like but a sad bf? or somthing that you don't really like but a happy bf?
2007-02-26 23:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by a-hepburn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, when he ask you what you want, you should have spoken up, but since you didn't, if he sends you what you think he going to send you accept it, say thank you, put it away and go on.
2007-02-26 23:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your own fault for telling him just to get anything...but be honest just say "i know i said to get me whatever you decided but i really won't use your gift, im sorry but i think its better if you return it"...then if he asks if you want something else tell him something specific...if he doesnt ask if you want something else dont bring it up
2007-02-26 23:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by squee squee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said anything.....
If he thinks you'll like it, try it at least.
If its long distance, he won't know youre not using it.
After the break up, you can "regift"
2007-02-26 23:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋