I like one of my best friends and im way to shy to tell him and scared it will ruin our friendship. Anyone have suggestions on what i should do?
2007-02-26 15:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Izzybella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dnt wrry i've been in the exact same position before well i suggest writing him a letter telling him how you feel and if he has anything to say tell him to feel free to talk to you abut it and try not to let the whole ruining friendship thing get to you too much becuz you'll never know what can happen once you tell him =) goodluck!
2007-02-26 15:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by jEsSnIcKeR`S ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay (i am speaking from experience now)
I liked my totally hot guy friend and just couldn't tell him for the same reasons. I eventually said "hey my freind told me you wanted to ask me out i that a rumor?" he said "yea but i do like you". I was so stoaked! but it might not end up that way but at least u don't ruin your friendship
2007-02-26 23:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by captain_cupcake_thirteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked my friend the same question. she rejected me and suggested we stay friends. that is my experience. i asked the same question, and i got many answers. it seriously depends on what you value more, friendship or love. i would gladly take the risk again, but are you willing to lose something important for a chance at something more??? it's totally up to you.
2007-02-26 23:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by that boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to just out and tell him. You could just show hint that you like him and I dought he will not be you friend because you like him. Who knows, he might feel the same way. I bet he will be more likely to make the first move if you hint that you like him.
2007-02-26 23:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Till him how you fill if you don't you will always wonder. if you don't till him it could ruin your friendship to because your not going to fill right around him. so go on and just till him get it over with.
2007-02-26 23:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your feeling. If she doesn't like you, you can still be close friends.
2007-02-26 23:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Enigmatic A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter what will be the eventuality, you must tell him what you feel abt him..that's it.
No risk No Gain.
2007-02-26 23:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go down on him, talk after, he will still want to be your friend
2007-02-26 23:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋