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Okay, i have known this guy for about a year now. He and I used to talk to each other so much last year, it's like we were a couple without knowing it, this year though, He barely looks at me, i do go up to him sometimes to talk, but we can't really grab a conversation anymore. It's like he's different now, i started having feelings for him a few months after we met, and i think he liked me too (then).

I've heard that he likes another girl and he's probably trying to just avoid me. Why would he avoid me though? Do you think i did sumthing wrong? I am crushed that he doesn't wanna talk to me, but i dunno why! I asked him once if he was mad at me, but he said he wasn't, is he lying to me? what should i do?!

2007-02-26 15:29:26 · 8 answers · asked by Luna Winter 7 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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ok sweetie i totally understand how you feel. i went through the same thing. what i did is i started to get to know other guys that i have somthing i common with and and there was somthing with one of them then i got to know them more and before i knew it he asked me to be his girlfriend so maybe you should give another guy and chance you might end up liking him more than this guy

2007-02-26 15:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by a-hepburn 1 · 2 0

It is difficult because it would seem that your situation is such that the more your persist and insist on an answer, the more he's going to avoid you. There is probably a reason, best known only to him. It could range from family problem or financial problem or relationship problem. Until he spills, one can only guess. I know you like him. Let him know that you are aware that he's having some problem but you will always be there when he's ready to talk about it. Tell him that you value this friendship and you apologise if you have done something wrong. THen, give him space and see if he would come around. Have faith that he will. Other than that, by you continuing to press for an answer, you will end up getting more heartbreak. Stay calm and be there for him.

2007-02-28 02:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 1 0

i'm a guy and thats prolly the situation im at with a friend. i talked with this girl a lot and then we sort of stopped talking and i know i had feelings for her, i think she had feelings for me too but i never talked to her about that kind of stuff so i'll never know.
now, your saying that he's trying to avoid you and he likes another girl, my opinion is that he liked you, maybe even until now so yer my only advice is try to talk to him more often like you two used to.
and you didnt do anything wrong

2007-02-28 01:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 1 0

if he does like another girl now then he probablyyy doesn't know how to let you down easy after your guyses history so he'd rather just completely avoid the situation. just ask him straight up why hes been acting different towards you

2007-02-26 23:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by babysophie; 1 · 1 0

his body language is tellling you the truth; he's not mad at you, but he's not interested either. he never approaches you to talk, he avoids eye contact, he barely looks at you, and friends say he is avoiding you...and you don't get it?

sometimes people just don't click. don't stress out over him, it's his loss. start checking out some fresh scenery, girl!

hugs,
cryllie

2007-02-28 01:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by cryllie 6 · 2 0

he has his life, you have yours

he can't always be dedicated to you and pay all his attention to you.

he probably has a lot of other things to worry about..

stop being so selfish and thinking of yourself. he's probably going through something harsh. if he's lying about anything, its about whats going on in his life.

2007-02-28 01:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1 1

well your'll were like a couple right, well he doesnt want people to think that your'll together cause HE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE, get over it and leave the poor guy alone.. his been very clear take his hint befor you embarass yourself

2007-02-28 02:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

the same thing happened to me. just ask him whats wrong.

2007-02-26 23:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 2 · 1 0

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